Ohh God...Where Do I Even Start?!

In my organization, our new members must complete a "Pledge Program" which requires a certain level of attendance to meetings and participation in activities. If the new member does not meet those requirements, their acceptance into the organization is jeapordized - for those who do meet the requirements, there has to be something significant in order to prevent their acceptance, like disrespect to the members or the organization itself.

I know the thread is three years old, but I hope that everything went well, and is currently going well!

[AnchorAlumna]

Check your organization's constitution, and your chapter bylaws. In our case...well, back in the day, anyway...there was a vote to initiate. If the pnm does not get an approving vote, she can be held over to repeat the PNM period. If she is still not initiated, her one-year pledge (according to NPC rules, remember) expires and she can pledge a different NPC sorority.
In any case, don't rely on what somebody tells you...go read your own rules.