Pref Night

i have a little question for the sororities. our pref night is coming up really fast and there is this one sorority that i want to join and i want to make sure that they put me high up on their list. i don't know how i can let them know this without coming right out and saying it though. any tips? and there is just one more question i have. is pref always at night? i was just wondering because they call it pref night and they told us to be there at 11, but i forgot to ask if it was in the morning or at night. thanks a bunch.

[twinstars]

pref parties aren't necessarily always held at night. i bet yours are in the afternoon, since you'd be there past one in the morning if they didn't begin until 11pm. most people go to at least 2 pref parties.

the girls who are high on the pref list are those the sisters feel most fit in with the sorority... the ones who have clicked the most with everybody before and during rush. the only strategy for you to use is to make each sorority think it's your first choice. even if they really love a rushee, but they think they're not her top choice, they may put her lower on the list than she would otherwise be. make them think that you would love to accept their bid.