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Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands
Agreed. That’s my point. I get being scared to get pregnant, hell, I would be, too. But my issue is when somebody has a bad experience with one dude, or doesn’t like Trump, and then say all dudes are like that. That’s wrong on all levels.
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Yep. So, one of my techs is going through this now. She was in a bad marriage with a guy who cheated on her and just overall wasn’t kind to her at all. But she stayed with him, knowing he was like this, because he was kind of like “out there”? before he met her. She’s been over him a long time now after their divorce, but she won’t date because she hates men. She thinks men are all the same, lol. She’s young and got married young. I think she was like 23 when she got married to him, and she’s not even 30 now, yet, she’s divorced.
I just told her that maybe she should have watched his patterns? She kind of got it but didn’t get it? I’ve always believed that men with that kind of behavior is precisely why banks check your credit (your track record). They know that what people have done in the past, they tend to do in the future. Yes, people do change, of course, but banks don’t invest in potential, they invest in patterns. And then, a bank is not going to loan money to a person who has proven unreliable, right? So, why should/would a woman give her life to a man whose pattern indicates the same? That’s what I don’t understand.
See, and this is why I believe when a man acts like a child, his behavior forces his significant other to act like his mother. And this interaction adversely affects their intimacy, and NO healthy man is sexually attracted to his mother. Just sayin…