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Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands
Interesting how a lot of focus rest on the wedding but little attention is given to the marriage itself with most couples I know.
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Originally Posted by honeychile
You are so right, Phrozen Sands! Too many people focus on the par-tay of the wedding, and don't work on the marriage itself. Granted, I wish our wedding had been a bit more, well, interesting, but the marriage itself has been meaningful!
May you all be fulfilled in your marriages, as opposed to throwing an amazing wedding!
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Yep, I agree. I just see it as the wedding being the public declaration of your commitment to each other for the rest of your lives, but the marriage
IS that commitment and requires much more effort than all the wedding planning could ever do.
Some couples will say the vows but won’t adhere to them because they’re just words to those couples. In my opinion, they aren’t just words — they’re guidelines to shape the relationship over the years.
Just my two cents though.
And I went back a few pages and read a few posts and laughed like it was just yesterday lol.
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