What to do after being dropped by every house?

[FSUZeta]

When I saw that you work 2 jobs a red flag popped up which made me wonder if it did for the sororities. I wondered if they were afraid that you might have too many obligations.

[Titchou]

Judge you??? For networking for a rec? Why on earth would you think that? If they were Greek they'd be thrilled! I love being asked to do them!!!! What an honor to be asked.

Have you been to the Greek adviser yet?

[tds81510]

Lillymaddy,
PM here and I can hopefully help you out. I had a young woman who I knew through my daughter who had a lot of the same stuff you did.....but not a single rec...she was told by everyone that it didn't matter--I worked hard to get her 8 rec's......she got dropped after first round by the other 7.....and she was very impressive.....so I do think the rec thing is something to think about and also something you might want to consider in order to do COB.....so PM and I can help you out!

[FSUZeta]

You feel that you are shy and you stated you were afraid that people who might have provided recs would judge you, which to me (armchair diagnostician) sounded like you are not very self assured. Despite your attempts to improve in that area, you might have fallen short, and come off as shy and awkward, which might have been interpreted as uninterested. That combined with no recs might have been the problem, but we just don't know.