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[DubaiSis]

Wow! I'm famous!

I will acknowledge a few things here. First, I have made some great (and real life) friends through GC. We have many times talked back and forth through here. The posts start to add up.

Secondly, a person really needs to understand that it is not mutual selection, regardless of what gets said. The sororities choose and the girls either say yes or no. My contention is that virtually all women would be happy in virtually any chapter. If they keep their minds open that meh chapter might turn out just fine. Or dare I say it, awesome. But it is true that she can accept her options. Or not. But don't come whining to us about it when you chose the super special snowflake route instead of grinning and bearing the truth of your situation. You may be a perfectly lovely girl but in the spectrum of sorority rush, you might just be ordinary. There is nothing wrong with ordinary. Unless you think you're the prom queen of college.

Third, we are nameless faceless entities on the interwebs. If you choose to be offended by the hurtful comments you perceive, that's on you. Nobody is forcing you or anyone else to read my musings or commandments. I love my sorority, the Greek system and the Panhellenic spirit. And it bugs the hell out of me when some teenager knows better than I do what is best for the Greek system as a whole. And the mother who doesn't know jack about squat but thinks she's the expert on all things sorority because her super special snowflake rushed and failed, yeah, my heart bleeds that she doesn't like me.