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Old 08-05-2014, 11:41 PM
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Slutty Kermit?! That's hilarious!
There was an interest who wore a lime green suit to my rush. It was...interesting to say the least.
So, I have to ask about this because this is a rule that I'd be clueless about. I'm guessing it was so egregious because it's an AKA color?
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Old 08-06-2014, 12:05 AM
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So, I have to ask about this because this is a rule that I'd be clueless about. I'm guessing it was so egregious because it's an AKA color?
Exactly. Showing up to an NPHC rush wearing another sorority's colors (in any shade) is a serious faux pas.

However, it is not the end-all. If a woman is really qualified, a fashion mistake can be overlooked (particularly at the alumnae level). A woman wore bright pink pumps to my rush and she's my line sister now. We still tease her about it ALL the time.
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Old 08-06-2014, 12:32 AM
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So, I have to ask about this because this is a rule that I'd be clueless about. I'm guessing it was so egregious because it's an AKA color?
There is not a "rule", per say. I will say that I went for a neutral ensemble, as did 99% of the ladies who attended. I know people who became members despite wearing other sororities colors...it wasn't going to be me (or my line), if you know what I'm saying.

And on a serious note, it falls into line with what I said earlier about the appropriateness of a lime green suit at an interview/presentation. Being that our org. is incorporated, appropriate business attire is a way of life. It should be treated like a job interview.

And besides, most of my AKA SisterGreeks would not have touched it. It was bright!!!
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Old 08-06-2014, 12:09 AM
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^^^ Would wearing the pink wig in the GIFs above, with the lime green suit, be the end-all? I'm guessing yes.
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Old 08-07-2014, 12:51 AM
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The length is the real issue on most of these pieces for me (I'm 5'8"), but you all are absolutely right in that they could fit shorter gals just fine.
Exactly. I have a thing for "mini skirts" from Express--they hit very close to my knees because I'm so short.
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Old 08-06-2014, 09:38 AM
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^^^ also, the pink blouse needs to be buttoned one button higher.

Shoes are the fashion sin I frequently see when collegians are wearing business/badge attire...those platform stiletto pumps that throw off their balance, and often give shorter girls an out of proportion look. I can see the temptation to add some inches, but I really wish that fashion trend would go away.
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Old 08-06-2014, 10:43 AM
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Those skirts would be too short for an interview or client meeting in my region/industry, but I think they'd be fine for business casual in the office...especially with the moderate heels shown. With platform stilettos, no. The length would also be all right in my book if worn in the winter with opaque tights.

I am as tall as a print model and it's almost impossible for me to find skirts that come to the knee on me. Note many dresses well above the knee on the models even at Brooks Brothers, which is about the most conservative business wardrobe you can find. http://www.brooksbrothers.com/womens...efault,sc.html
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Old 08-06-2014, 10:53 AM
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The length is the real issue on most of these pieces for me (I'm 5'8"), but you all are absolutely right in that they could fit shorter gals just fine. I rescind my issue with the first skirt (it's actually fine), but I still think that the last two pieces could be problematic due to length.

And yes, I've become a premature curmudgeon. I also yell at my iPhone and computer.
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Old 08-06-2014, 10:58 AM
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Think of it this way, at least those people aren't violating the seasonal color and fabric rules. No respectable place of employment would hire someone who doesn't know when to close the "spring and summer closet." More career services and job trainings need to teach that. Stop wasting time teaching that OTHER dress and etiquette stuff.
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Old 08-06-2014, 12:02 PM
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And ya know, those skirts wouldn't be as shocking looking if people would put on FREAKING PANTY HOSE.

THIS is the faux pas I see even seasoned women in business making. Ladies, stop. If you have on business wear and close toed shoes, or dresses the length of those above, you need pantyhose. I don't care what some "dress younger" idiot said in her book. You are not Mariah Carey going by limo from store to store. If I could manage them when I was 95 sheets to the wind, you can manage them in your job. STOP.
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Old 08-06-2014, 05:11 PM
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I hate panty hose and avoid them like the plague.

'dem hoes need hose....
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Old 08-06-2014, 06:12 PM
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I don't like hose or tights either. I run super hot (I go to school in NOVA and ran the AC on 60 the entire winter), so I'm miserable on that score. Plus, I have never been able to keep tights or hose where it's supposed to be; it always falls down to my knees.
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Old 08-06-2014, 07:30 PM
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Do they still make panty hose? I thought those were going the way of Blockbuster, plastic rain hats, etc.
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Old 08-06-2014, 09:39 PM
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Do they still make panty hose? I thought those were going the way of Blockbuster, plastic rain hats, etc.
Like many things, reports of their demise are greatly exaggerated. Maybe tights are worn more than they used to be, but I find tights more uncomfortable than pantyhose.

ETA: If you live in a Northern climate, you look like a jackass wandering around in November without pantyhose. It's COLD and there are times when tights aren't appropriate.
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Old 08-07-2014, 08:58 PM
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Like many things, reports of their demise are greatly exaggerated. Maybe tights are worn more than they used to be, but I find tights more uncomfortable than pantyhose.

ETA: If you live in a Northern climate, you look like a jackass wandering around in November without pantyhose. It's COLD and there are times when tights aren't appropriate.
That's when I wear pants. I only do tights or bare legs because I can't find tights to match my skin tone and every shade I've tried looks awful.
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