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Originally Posted by colordogs
Just got a text from her after pref parties and she is terribly torn. Had a great party at #1 but didn't think they expressed interest. Party #2 Was a terrific party where they expressed interest so she is terribly torn.
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What kind of "interest" are you/she looking for the chapter to "express"? The members of the chapter have to be careful not to say anything that could be viewed as a promise of a bid. In my opinion, the fact that the chapter invited your girl to their preference party IS expressing an interest.
In the case of the other chapter, depending on that organization's legacy policy, the fact that she was invited to the preference party may come along with a "guarantee" that she'll be on that group's first bid list. In that case, a chapter might feel they can be more direct about the fact that they'd like your daughter to join their sisterhood.
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