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Old 07-18-2013, 06:53 AM
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Seriously, you never heard of this type of behavior? I did and I was in school before you.
In my years in college ('83-'87), we saw a significant change in behavior because of HIV. There was a huge hook up culture my freshman year (not just among freshman). By the time I graduated, people were afraid. The reality of death due to casual sex did have an impact.
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Old 07-18-2013, 10:04 AM
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But STDs have once again receded from the radar, and of course young adults think they're bullet proof.
And a media that encourages casual sex and cohabiting before married doesn't help.
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Old 07-18-2013, 11:02 AM
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You know which segment of the population has shown the biggest increase in STDs? The nursing home population!
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Old 07-18-2013, 11:12 AM
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You know which segment of the population has shown the biggest increase in STDs? The nursing home population!
Shrieking laugh. This reminds me of Grandma33's nursing home roommate who was forever bringing men back to their room. It never ends, kids.
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Old 07-18-2013, 11:36 AM
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So few men and so many women - more or less a captive audience as well!
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Old 07-19-2013, 12:01 PM
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^^^^Disclaimer: I do not know how things are done at Ole Miss.

With that said, I know that MOST schools are moving toward "you meet with your group RIGHT before parties and get your schedules." Like you get your list and have like 30 min. before you need to be at your first party for the day.

They've found that PNMs are much more likely to continue with recruitment that way, as opposed to when you were given your list and had the whole day to commiserate.

Very few schools still do the "get your invites then go to parties the NEXT day" thing. I'd be surprised if a system like Ole Miss does it.
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Old 07-19-2013, 12:48 PM
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^^^^Disclaimer: I do not know how things are done at Ole Miss.

With that said, I know that MOST schools are moving toward "you meet with your group RIGHT before parties and get your schedules." Like you get your list and have like 30 min. before you need to be at your first party for the day.

They've found that PNMs are much more likely to continue with recruitment that way, as opposed to when you were given your list and had the whole day to commiserate.

Very few schools still do the "get your invites then go to parties the NEXT day" thing. I'd be surprised if a system like Ole Miss does it.
I believe you are pretty close to how it is done here. I should know but it changes every few years and I don't know exactly. But I think they do hand them out about 30 minutes before each round of parties starts. Gone are the days of sliding them under your dorm rom door! I believe any PNM who is released from the entire recruitment process will be told in person via their recruitment counselor. I will be honest, I attended skit parties and pref parties last year for AOII (helping out!) and I don't recall seeing any PNMs who had their makeup ruined or who looked upset. Most PNMs know they must "play the game" if they want to stay in the process and receive a bid. So you just hold your tears back, powder your nose and freshen your lip gloss and smile! And just to clarify there are very few PNMs who are released from the entire process altogether. (now when a PNM drops out on her own accord that's a whole other thread!)
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Old 07-19-2013, 12:50 PM
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^^^^Disclaimer: I do not know how things are done at Ole Miss.

With that said, I know that MOST schools are moving toward "you meet with your group RIGHT before parties and get your schedules." Like you get your list and have like 30 min. before you need to be at your first party for the day.

Most schools also don't have rush in the middle of the academic year. My daughter has classes each day until 3:50pm. With parties starting at 4:00 pm, it doesn't give her much time to prepare for a party. If invites were placed under the doors, that would save valuable time!

They've found that PNMs are much more likely to continue with recruitment that way, as opposed to when you were given your list and had the whole day to commiserate.

This I understand!


Very few schools still do the "get your invites then go to parties the NEXT day" thing. I'd be surprised if a system like Ole Miss does it.

I thought it was too good to be true!
I've said it before, and I'll say it again, Recruitment would be so much easier if they would have it before classes started. If a girl is silly enough to leave school because she didn't get her first choice house, that's her decision!

I know if the girls miss class for recruitment, they will automatically be cut from recruitment. Any hope that the professors will allow the girls to at least leave early?
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Old 07-19-2013, 01:53 PM
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I've said it before, and I'll say it again, Recruitment would be so much easier if they would have it before classes started. If a girl is silly enough to leave school because she didn't get her first choice house, that's her decision!
By now - Ole Miss has been doing it this way for so long, if they changed to before the semester starts, they would have be at the same time as one of the other big SEC schools. I don't think they would like that either.

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I know if the girls miss class for recruitment, they will automatically be cut from recruitment. Any hope that the professors will allow the girls to at least leave early?
I would not not even try to ask for that.
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Old 07-19-2013, 03:24 PM
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By now - Ole Miss has been doing it this way for so long, if they changed to before the semester starts, they would have be at the same time as one of the other big SEC schools. I don't think they would like that either.



I would not not even try to ask for that.
Why Ole Miss continually recruits professors that aren't Greek still baffles me. If I were teaching an afternoon class during Recruitment, and I am thinking about applying for an adjunct position, I would have make up classes for that week for anyone that missed the class. As it is I have to caution PNMs to go ahead and do any projects, papers, or test prep early as soon as it is assigned. The two weeks before Recruitment you need to be as far ahead in your classes as you can possibly get. You procrastinators out there? Better get the lead out and put the pedal to the metal early.

Women in recruitment are expected to miss a party rather than miss a class. Missing a class means dropping out of Recruitment. Panhellenic will send the PNMs regrets to the Chapters that have the early parties. Will the absent PNM get cut? It's a definite possibility. If I were a PNM and had enough classes to drop one or two first semester I would drop the afternoon classes even though I am more of a night owl than a morning lark. For that matter all the Chapters have Collegians missing parties for classes too, so that can be stressful if a Collegian is an officer or has a major role in that party round.
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Old 07-20-2013, 12:08 AM
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Why Ole Miss continually recruits professors that aren't Greek still baffles me. If I were teaching an afternoon class during Recruitment, and I am thinking about applying for an adjunct position, I would have make up classes for that week for anyone that missed the class. As it is I have to caution PNMs to go ahead and do any projects, papers, or test prep early as soon as it is assigned. The two weeks before Recruitment you need to be as far ahead in your classes as you can possibly get. You procrastinators out there? Better get the lead out and put the pedal to the metal early.

Women in recruitment are expected to miss a party rather than miss a class. Missing a class means dropping out of Recruitment. Panhellenic will send the PNMs regrets to the Chapters that have the early parties. Will the absent PNM get cut? It's a definite possibility. If I were a PNM and had enough classes to drop one or two first semester I would drop the afternoon classes even though I am more of a night owl than a morning lark. For that matter all the Chapters have Collegians missing parties for classes too, so that can be stressful if a Collegian is an officer or has a major role in that party round.
I know I'm still perseverating on this -- but I just can't understand why this doesn't change. Seems to me that the Greek system is a draw for Ole Miss -- yet the powers that be make the process unnecessarily difficult on their new freshmen and on the chapter actives.

Just drives me crazy. And I don't even have a daughter there.
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Old 07-20-2013, 12:42 AM
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By now - Ole Miss has been doing it this way for so long, if they changed to before the semester starts, they would have be at the same time as one of the other big SEC schools. I don't think they would like that either. I would not not even try to ask for that.
I know that Ole Miss held rush prior to fall semester as late as the mid 1980's, when I was there. I am not sure when it changed to mid-semester, but it has not been that long, at least not that long in "Mississippi time" where things move just a little bit slower Mary Poppins... do you know what year rush was moved back?
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Old 07-20-2013, 12:35 AM
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Old 07-20-2013, 12:50 AM
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About 1997 to 2000, somewhere in there.
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Old 07-22-2013, 09:54 AM
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The last year recruitment (rush) was held before classes started was my freshman year, Fall 1996. My sophomore year fall 1997 they moved it. So it's been a while since the administration moved it.
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