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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog
Of course getting kidnapped and raped is not the victim's fault.
I'm just really wondering what happened that she could go to a hospital and deliver a baby and not find some moment to give someone an inkling she needed help. Maybe there truly wasn't an opportunity.
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Originally Posted by shirley1929
Read my next post...fear of retaliation! Maybe there wasn't an opportunity or maybe she sat in a room full of police officers without her kidnapper and was fearful for her, her child's, or her family's life. It doesn't matter...just because opportunity may or may not have been there, it doesn't mean she would have taken it. And if she didn't take it, IT IS NOT HER FAULT. That's all I'm getting at...
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Originally Posted by christiangirl
AF already confirmed that is not what she was saying so I'm not sure why you're continuing to "get at" that point. All of us agree, it's not her fault. You don't need to keep driving it in when she's stated that she absolutely did not mean it the way it was perceived.
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AF confirmed that she agreed the kidnapping and rape were not her fault, however there are TWO issues that are not the victim's fault is what I was trying to say. AF is still is confused as to why she didn't speak up while in the hospital. Which, to some who don't know what she's trying to say, sounds like blaming the victim FOR NOT SPEAKING UP.
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Originally Posted by christiangirl
I miss DrPhil.
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Agreed. +1