opinion needed

[DeltaDyme]

Hii all. I recently had a run in with a girl i havent seen in over 7 or 8 years. She is a delta as I am, but she honestly didnt believe me when she found out. She insisted on calling me out my name and calling me a poser. I gave her my chapter and the school and year i crossd. She still was insulting me and calling me disrespectful. One thing she said was "If you are a Delta, Then ima treat you like one". I never once cussd back at her or even made such a scene as she did.. I dont know how else to think abt it. I felt i was being very adult bc I am older and she was being very childish.

[ASTalumna06]

Originally Posted by DeltaDyme

Hii all. I recently had a run in with a girl i havent seen in over 7 or 8 years. She is a delta as I am, but she honestly didnt believe me when she found out. She insisted on calling me out my name and calling me a poser. I gave her my chapter and the school and year i crossd. She still was insulting me and calling me disrespectful. One thing she said was "If you are a Delta, Then ima treat you like one". I never once cussd back at her or even made such a scene as she did.. I dont know how else to think abt it. I felt i was being very adult bc I am older and she was being very childish.

And your question is...... ?

[DeltaDyme]

How would you handle situations such as this. Im sorry for forgetting the original question.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by DeltaDyme

Hii all. I recently had a run in with a girl i havent seen in over 7 or 8 years. She is a delta as I am, but she honestly didnt believe me when she found out. She insisted on calling me out my name and calling me a poser. I gave her my chapter and the school and year i crossd. She still was insulting me and calling me disrespectful. One thing she said was "If you are a Delta, Then ima treat you like one". I never once cussd back at her or even made such a scene as she did.. I dont know how else to think abt it. I felt i was being very adult bc I am older and she was being very childish.

Originally Posted by DeltaDyme

How would you handle situations such as this. Im sorry for forgetting the original question.

If you are really a Delta, and a relatively new Delta at that, you have real life Deltas who can offer this advice.

Be gone.

[DeltaDyme]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

If you are really a Delta, and a relatively new Delta at that, you have real life Deltas who can offer this advice.

Be gone.

wow.. well i did talk to a few of them.. all i was asking for was an opinion of how anyone else would handle the situation... but umm ok. Im gone.

[ASTalumna06]

Originally Posted by DeltaDyme

wow.. well i did talk to a few of them.. all i was asking for was an opinion of how anyone else would handle the situation... but umm ok. Im gone.

I guess I just don't understand why you're concerned about someone you haven't seen or talked to in 8 years. You don't have to prove anything to anyone. Move on.

[DSTlady6]

I wouldn't be concerned with her. As long as I know I have MY letters and got them legitimately then it's up to her to search and prove otherwise. Heck, she would need to prove to me that she's a real Delta. Trust and believe if you said your chapter, she's already looked you up.

[PatientDST]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

If you are really a Delta, and a relatively new Delta at that, you have real life Deltas who can offer this advice.

Be gone.

That's what I was thinking. This situation would have already been handled if she was really a Delta.
Just Sayin!