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07-29-2010, 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted by Drolefille
I disagree. Sorority women work too. Facing the possibility of missing one party of 10, or better, splitting a party so time is spent with both chapters, is not a "Greek life is not for you" sign.
However you do need to talk to your dad. Even if there's a reason why he can't give you time that night, you need to tell him that you will have chapter meetings and other required events, and you will have to be present for every hour of rush too. (Plus workshops ahead of time and meetings after.)
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Sorry but you're not at all familiar with the way things work at my school. This is a big deal.
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07-29-2010, 11:13 AM
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Originally Posted by bear_down
Sorry but you're not at all familiar with the way things work at my school. This is a big deal.
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What is? Missing a party? No I get that. But it doesn't mean re-evaluating whether Greek Life is "right for her."
I'd be surprised if U of AZ is the only school where Greek women don't have to balance work, sorority and academics.
ETA: It's always more useful if you explain what the "big deal" is when you assume someone's not getting it.
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07-29-2010, 02:39 AM
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Also, I am really not trying to be Debbie Downer, but I would check with your Recruitment Counselor concerning UA's policy on missing parties.
I do know that some schools will remove PNMs from recruitment if they miss a party (for something other than class).
Now I don't know if UA does this or not, but it's good to check it out.
Either way, if you are going to miss or leave early, let your recruitment counselor know.
Like I said, if you have to choose between speed rushing and skipping, I would just do a speed schedule.
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07-29-2010, 06:20 PM
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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
check with your Recruitment Counselor concerning UA's policy on missing parties.
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When do we find out who our Recruitment Counselor is? At the PNM meeting?
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07-29-2010, 06:23 PM
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Originally Posted by A2014Z
When do we find out who our Recruitment Counselor is? At the PNM meeting?
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That's pretty standard. Even if you don't get assigned one then, that's a good time to find one and ask questions.
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07-29-2010, 02:52 AM
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okay. I will check and see what they have to say when the time comes. if they are going to kick me out for missing a party, then I for sure need to speed rush that day.
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07-06-2011, 01:15 PM
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Hey girls I'm rushing at UA this fall too! Feel free to message me
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07-29-2010, 09:25 AM
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To the OP:
1) It is HOT and may also rain, and yes, you will see PNMs in shorts, flip flops, tshirts, tanks, etc. during the first round. IMO if the shorts outfit is cute and well put together (and not a pair of cutoffs and a very revealing tank with bra straps showing) that is fine. You can't go wrong with a cute sundress or skirt and it will make a better impression.
2) Sleeveless shirts: fine, as long as you are not falling out in the front. Remember, you want to be remembered for your personality and other strengths, not as "that girl with the cleavage". Seriously.
3) Recruitment is VERY competitive. in August 2009 1200 PNMs signed up and close to that number went through the first set of parties. Be prepared for heavy cuts if you do not have a stellar GPA, recommendations, and a strong resume. The U of A uses RFM and the first round cuts can be a shock to many unprepared PNMs. Work on your conversation skills.
4) I advise against "speed rushing". You need to be fully present for each party you are invited to. Yes, parties go until the times stated. I have not heard of PNMs "speed rushing" at UofA; please check with your Recruitment Counselor or the Greek Life Office.
5) KSUViolet06 has provided excellent links on recruitment. Read those. And ask the Greek Life Office how recruitment groups are organized. That office is your best source of information for the University of Arizona.
Good luck to you and I hope everything will work out well for you.
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07-29-2010, 04:25 PM
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also, thanks everyone for taking the time to give me great advice on recruitment. i will certainly follow it.
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07-29-2010, 05:41 PM
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Okay! I'll do a rush story as soon as rush starts
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07-29-2010, 05:46 PM
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Okay! I'll do a rush story as soon as rush starts 
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Sounds good, read through some of other stories here and consider doing a delayed story to relieve stress on yourself as well as avoid making it obvious what your thoughts are on certain chapters during recruitment.
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07-29-2010, 05:44 PM
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Sometimes there are conflicts during recruitment with other school related activities - marching band is a very common one. Please contact the Greek Life office at UA and talk with them about it. I'm sure they have dealt with this before.
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07-29-2010, 05:50 PM
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Haha I've read through them! And that's a good idea, I'll do it right afterwards. And I'll for sure contact the Greek Office, thanks for your help
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07-29-2010, 06:51 PM
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Alrighty then. I hope that the OP and whoever else is lurking but going through recruitment at the University of Arizona took the time to read my post, as well as the other posts which contained great information.
And to Drolefille - you might be the Ur-Greek, but I went to school when God was a baby. So what does that make me? *ducks and runs for the bleachers, spilling popcorn and coke along the way*
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07-29-2010, 07:07 PM
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And to Drolefille - you might be the Ur-Greek, but I went to school when God was a baby. So what does that make me? *ducks and runs for the bleachers, spilling popcorn and coke along the way*
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Old as hell?
I kid!
Dance party!
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