Brother gets revenge on sister, posts hookup list on Fbook

[bostongreek]

Originally Posted by epchick

"v" stands for virgin. "Turning in your v-card" is a popular term for losing your virginity. For many high school kids, you haven't lost your virginity until you physically have intercourse. And just cause she wrote this list down doesn't mean she's done anything....yet. (although, i doubt it)

I think the crossouts are the ones she's accomplished

[WinniBug]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

My question is why she's got "v-card" as a goal for 2 different guys. Either your goodies have superpowers and can multiply or you're just extra for having v-card backups.

my guess is those are the 2 she wanted to give her v-card to

[AGDee]

I keep thinking about this situation. While she was a fool to have that list and squealing on her brother about the beer wasn't cool, the "punishment" doesn't seem to fit the crime here. Yeah, she told on him and he's grounded for 3 months. He would get over that.. in 20 years, it would seem like no big deal. His actions though may very well have destroyed her ability to even function in school and revealing something like this has probably destroyed any chance of their ever having a decent relationship in the future. Most siblings have fights or tattle on each other over the course of their childhood but get over it as adults and become more close. I can't see these two ever getting past this though. As funny as it was at first, when I really sit and think about it, it's a life changing move on the brother's part.

[PeppyGPhiB]

Originally Posted by AGDee

I keep thinking about this situation. While she was a fool to have that list and squealing on her brother about the beer wasn't cool, the "punishment" doesn't seem to fit the crime here. Yeah, she told on him and he's grounded for 3 months. He would get over that.. in 20 years, it would seem like no big deal. His actions though may very well have destroyed her ability to even function in school and revealing something like this has probably destroyed any chance of their ever having a decent relationship in the future. Most siblings have fights or tattle on each other over the course of their childhood but get over it as adults and become more close. I can't see these two ever getting past this though. As funny as it was at first, when I really sit and think about it, it's a life changing move on the brother's part.

These were my thoughts exactly. If my brother did this to me, I don't think I could have any type of relationship with him.

It was also an embarrassing thing to do to the guys listed on that piece of paper.

[preciousjeni]

Originally Posted by AGDee

I keep thinking about this situation. While she was a fool to have that list and squealing on her brother about the beer wasn't cool, the "punishment" doesn't seem to fit the crime here. Yeah, she told on him and he's grounded for 3 months. He would get over that.. in 20 years, it would seem like no big deal. His actions though may very well have destroyed her ability to even function in school and revealing something like this has probably destroyed any chance of their ever having a decent relationship in the future. Most siblings have fights or tattle on each other over the course of their childhood but get over it as adults and become more close. I can't see these two ever getting past this though. As funny as it was at first, when I really sit and think about it, it's a life changing move on the brother's part.

I doubt this incident will have any lasting impact after she graduates in a few months. Things like this happen all the time. Thinking back on my own high school experience, the contents of private journals made their way into the public eye, but those girls were fine after graduation.

I think both of these CHILDREN need to grow up. Why would you rat out your sibling like that? So sad. While my brother and I had a love-hate relationship growing up, we'd never do anything like this. We'd just fight each other, drawing blood...breaking bones, etc. It's bad, but better than this underhanded mess.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by preciousjeni

I doubt this incident will have any lasting impact after she graduates in a few months. Things like this happen all the time. Thinking back on my own high school experience, the contents of private journals made their way into the public eye, but those girls were fine after graduation.

Were you in high school during the Internet era and was the public eye millions of people across the globe?

I wasn't in high school during the Internet era and we didn't have private journals made public. Even if we did, there's a difference between a local embarassment and an international embarassment.

Originally Posted by preciousjeni

I think both of these CHILDREN need to grow up. Why would you rat out your sibling like that? So sad. While my brother and I had a love-hate relationship growing up, we'd never do anything like this. We'd just fight each other, drawing blood...breaking bones, etc. It's bad, but better than this underhanded mess.

Well, they are children and they are growing up in the stupidity that is the Internet generation.

These children are both basket cases. I hope the parents take this as a sign that things are out of control in that household.

I would talk to my brother about his drinking and tell him I was worried about him--assuming sneaking beer into the room means he's sitting around and basically binge drinking. I never believed in underage drinking, so I'd tell my parents if I felt it was something they should become involved in.

[preciousjeni]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

Were you in high school during the Internet era and was the public eye millions of people across the globe?

I wasn't in high school during the Internet era and we didn't have private journals made public. Even if we did, there's a difference between a local embarassment and an international embarassment.

It's facebook though, so the scope is limited. What we're seeing doesn't have the full names, so someone had the presence of mind to protect those involved before posting it where millions of people would see it.

Unless it gets picked up by a news site or blasted on the front page of Yahoo, it'll blow over.

ETA: Maybe the girls in my high school were worse than most, but there were several "major" events that threatened the social life of various girls such as pregnancies, STDs, drunk sex, publicizing of private information, etc. What this kid posted on facebook seems pretty tame to me.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by preciousjeni

It's facebook though, so the scope is limited. What we're seeing doesn't have the full names, so someone had the presence of mind to protect those involved before posting it where millions of people would see it.

LOL facebook isn't limited in scope and this stupidity has been posted on a bunch of message boards. No one can control the outcome from there.

Last names were protected but people who have no lives and care enough could find out who these kids are. Such is the Internet era.

[PeppyGPhiB]

Originally Posted by preciousjeni

It's facebook though, so the scope is limited. What we're seeing doesn't have the full names, so someone had the presence of mind to protect those involved before posting it where millions of people would see it.

Unless it gets picked up by a news site or blasted on the front page of Yahoo, it'll blow over.

ETA: Maybe the girls in my high school were worse than most, but there were several "major" events that threatened the social life of various girls such as pregnancies, STDs, drunk sex, publicizing of private information, etc. What this kid posted on facebook seems pretty tame to me.

The betrayal by the brother would be difficult for me to get over if I was the sister. What he did to her was way worse than her ratting on him to their parents. It was a very cruel thing for him to do, and he is presumably the older sibling.

[tld221]

OMG i couldnt see the image on BB but this is HILARIOUS. that ish so wins.

[IlovemyAKA]

"What are you gonna do? tell mom and dad that i uploaded your dick sucking list to facebook? go ahead."

FTW. LMBO!!!

[tld221]

She'd better get cracking, she's only got 4 months.

then again, she could make all this happen in a weekend, or a fortnight if she put her mind to it.

[VandalSquirrel]

If he was smart he would have let her know that he had it and used it for blackmail for a very long time. He's lost all value for future use and it was much more valuable before he showed his hand. Think about all the perks of having this knowledge and threatening to expose it.

[RU OX Alum]

Originally Posted by AGDee

I keep thinking about this situation. While she was a fool to have that list and squealing on her brother about the beer wasn't cool, the "punishment" doesn't seem to fit the crime here. Yeah, she told on him and he's grounded for 3 months. He would get over that.. in 20 years, it would seem like no big deal. His actions though may very well have destroyed her ability to even function in school and revealing something like this has probably destroyed any chance of their ever having a decent relationship in the future. Most siblings have fights or tattle on each other over the course of their childhood but get over it as adults and become more close. I can't see these two ever getting past this though. As funny as it was at first, when I really sit and think about it, it's a life changing move on the brother's part.

Yeah, I was thinking that too.

Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel

If he was smart he would have let her know that he had it and used it for blackmail for a very long time. He's lost all value for future use and it was much more valuable before he showed his hand. Think about all the perks of having this knowledge and threatening to expose it.

Wow. I didn't even think of blackmail. You are like, the most perfectly evil little sister ever.

[VandalSquirrel]

Originally Posted by RU OX Alum

Yeah, I was thinking that too.



Wow. I didn't even think of blackmail. You are like, the most perfectly evil little sister ever.

Hahaha! I am a little sister X4 and very good at being manipulative and evil if need be. Even as an adult I still have some advantages at times for various reasons. I also attribute it to my reading of Machiavelli's "The Prince" and Sun Tzu's "Art of War" in junior high as a way to encourage my precocious wheeling and dealing of my older sibling's dirty secrets.