Hi guys, I'm a sweetheart. I got a sweetheart pin this year at formal(along with 2 other girls). Well about the whole letters thing, the chapter bought us the sweetheart pins and we are suppose to wear them at cocktails, formals and prefrence dinners(formal/semi-formal occasions). They are also getting us sweatshirts that spell out Sigma Nu and underneath it says sweetheart.
On another note, my boyfriend who is EC this year, is buying me my own set of letters but they are really really small like 2 inches. They arent the traditional type of letters the actives get. We are allowed to wear their letters if they offer them to us. were just not allowed to have our own set of Big letters, and we didnt ask either cause we know that they worked really hard for those letters. My boys are kinda funny about the whole letters thing, so unless we are offered letters we dont ask, we dont want to step on their toes. We are really honored just to be sweethearts.