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06-13-2008, 08:09 AM
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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet
Ummm...  LOL Yeah, I guess you're saying sex is overrated...  |
Lol not at all. For those who care to delve into it...sex is a great thing and can't be talked abt enough. I for one don't mind it or talk of it
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07-05-2008, 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted by cincy
I am a virgin and very proud of it. It is so rare these days. I plan on waiting until I get married. There are a few reasons for this but the main one is because GOD SAID! Thats all I'm going to say about that.
So my question is, IS SEX OVERRATED?
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Congratulations on waiting until you get married. You will be glad you did. I've been married over 12 years and it can not ever be overrated with the right person.
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07-06-2008, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted by TRSimon
Congratulations on waiting until you get married. You will be glad you did. I've been married over 12 years and it can not ever be overrated with the right person.
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Congratulations on your 12 years Soror! That's an accomplishment. Yeah, you're right about that sex is never overrated with the right person.
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12-18-2008, 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted by BlueReign
Congratulations on your 12 years Soror! That's an accomplishment. Yeah, you're right about that sex is never overrated with the right person.
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Hearty cosign. I have a tmi story for y'all. I was not a virgin when I got married. I certainly have no regrets because all my experiences made me the person I am, but it certainly would have been beautiful to share that with my husband for the first time.
The last man (well, creature) I was with was a bit of a fiend, as was I. Knowing full well that he was NOT the man God had in store for me, we went at it like bunnies. I found it strange that I ALWAYS had UTIs when I was with him, but that didn't stop me.
Looking back, I honestly believe the UTIs were the result of being outside of God's will because I have yet to have a UTI in all the time I've MADE LOVE with my husband.
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12-18-2008, 02:01 PM
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I know I'm crashing here - but maybe you got UTIs because he wasn't cleaning properly "down there."
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12-18-2008, 03:51 PM
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Originally Posted by alphagamzetagam
I know I'm crashing here - but maybe you got UTIs because he wasn't cleaning properly "down there."
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Possible but pretty unlikely. The issue was really the...ummm...roughness.
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12-19-2008, 10:25 PM
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My 63 cents is this. Sex is not overated. It is a healthy expression of affection between two people based on trust, understanding and affection (at least most of the time LOL). If you have chosen to ignore or repress your feelings based on faith, that is simply the road you have chosen. I neither applaud nor condem your decision. However, I am curious that if this is what you feel is best for you, then why pose the question on this msg board, unless you are attempting to influence others?
Now, pls excuse me while I watch some old Heather Hunter movies.
Last edited by know1isgod; 12-20-2008 at 08:19 AM.
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12-19-2008, 10:29 PM
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^^^ WTF? It's all about Pinky!
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12-22-2008, 12:23 AM
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Originally Posted by Senusret I
Sex, much like joining a BGLO, is more meaningful and enjoyable when it hurts.
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Originally Posted by Senusret I
^^^ WTF? It's all about Pinky!
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IDK why I allow myself to be surprised by you. But Pinky and her tan line are beyond distracting. I don't see how anyone enjoys watching her..., but I guess I'm not her desired demographic anyway. LOL
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12-29-2008, 04:53 AM
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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy
Yup it's overrated if it's with the wrong person. I think that's great that you've decided to wait until marriage. The only advice I have for you is to stay away from the bad boys. These low down two timing whore mongers are only interested in seeing you use your panties as ankle warmers. You'll be able to tell if you've got a good joker, because when you hold out on the nookie, and he still stays with you, then he likes you for you. A joker that only wants the nookie will bounce if you don't give it up to him. Then again, he'll bounce after he gets it too. Make sure you get a man who follows Christ, and loves and respects himself. If he loves and respects himself, then he'll love and respect you. Lastly, be careful not to mistake intensity for intimacy. Intensity fades as the newness of the relationship wears off, but intimacy continues to grow in a positive way the longer you know a joker.
Good luck to you. 
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this is awesome. thank you!
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