Could some BGLO ladies please explain how the NPHC sorority rush process happens?

[Rosealum]

So, I guess the gist of NPC versus NPHC is that with NPC you aren't even allowed to show that you are even aware of chapter members before you actually walk into the party or else the sorority will get a rush infraction. NPHC would be like "suiciding"...okay I can use that word cause they aren't NPC, right.

[NinjaPoodle]

Originally posted by Rosealum
So, .... NPHC would be like "suiciding"...okay I can use that word cause they aren't NPC, right.

That is correct.

[NinjaPoodle]

Originally posted by bluriver
[B]Actually....whoever says that attending more than one sorority event is BAD OR TABOO is totally WROOOONG!!!.

You should and must attend all sororites events...thats the only way to make your final decision

You might think you want to be an AKA, but find out the SGRhos are more your speed or that the DELTAS got more spunk.
Do not let other people including sorority members deviate you interest in their organization or another.

If you're curious attend all the events...THEN will you be able to make all the decisions[SIZE=4][SIZE=4][FONT=times new roman][COLOR=royalblue]

Events, not Rush. There's a huge difference. Just a thought, that's fine to go to different orgs events but dont EXPECT a warm reception if RusheeGirl had been attending a number of NPHCSorority A's events (events that count like fundraisers, community service etc where people SEE YOU) and then show up to NPHC SororityB's events (parties don't count). It looks SUSPECT. That's how it is, I didn't make the rules.

Actually....whoever says that attending more than one sorority event is BAD OR TABOO is totally WROOOONG!!!.

Where did you get this info? In some places it IS taboo. It's just not done.

[bluriver]

I believe that even in NPHC organizations each org does things differently when it comes to membership. Some organizations do rush other don't So...to apply the term RUSH to another sorority, within the NPHC without having true insight into their membership process WOULD BE INCORRECT!!!

The Term Rush has double meanings for some organziations...you must be clear in how you use the term...because evidence has shown that activities that one sorority does and calls it "RUSH" it not at all similiar to another organizations' idea of "RUSH".

Thus, like I said before it is alright to attend one sorority's community service event and then attend another sorority's party or community service...whatever they're having.

For example...Community service events shoud be meant for the public participation...how would anyone know that you are interested in the organization if people from all walks of life are participating in the community service...Some organizations do have community service which is not just open to women in the sorority, but to men, children, other women ( older women, college aged women, etc)

How would someone from the sorority, whose event that you are attending even know that you are interested unless the event you are attending..the only people there are sorority members and interested members...then you would feel a bit out of place for making your presence known if you're not yet seriously interested in the organization.

So my final advice...be careful what events you attend...attend the organziation's open public events (if they have any) and read all about the organizations too...that a really good way to gain more insight if you're afraid to show up to an event out of fear that sorority members would expect you to be interested in thie organziation because you're at one of their events. Whether it be RUSH or not.

[NinjaPoodle]

Are you a member of an NPHC org?

I believe that even in NPHC organizations each org does things differently when it comes to membership.

[DSTCHAOS]

I hate it when old threads get resurrected.

[bluriver]

Yes the lovely bluriver is a member of an NPHC organization

[bluriver]

To Ms. DSTCHAOS...

Well I hate to eat vomit...so I will end my comments on the matter.

[33girl]

The phrase "settle down, Beavis" speeds to mind.

[kddani]

Originally posted by 33girl
The phrase "settle down, Beavis" speeds to mind.

Too funny. Maybe Craig can come hand out some downers

[Trisana58]

What sources do you recommend to use 4 researching sororities in the NPHC?
And what is a "sweetheart"?

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by Trisana58

What sources do you recommend to use 4 researching sororities in the NPHC?

1. National websites that can be found through www.google.com by entering in each sorority name.
2. Attending programs on your campus and in your community
3. Getting to know (NOT interrogating) members on your campus and in your community.

[ladygreek]

After re-reading this thread I'm not sure this point was made. One of the major differences between NPHC and NPC is you shouldn't Rush your freshman year. Most likely you are not eligible. Thus you have a whole year to get to see what each of the org about and do your research via websites, and conversations.

For some of us Rush is structured nationally as the place where you get the final instructions for joining and receive an application packet. And we don't like handing those out to folx who are just curious. On top of that you MUST attend the Rush to get a packet, because there are some legalities that are covered.

[NappyBison]

Originally Posted by Trisana58

What sources do you recommend to use 4 researching sororities in the NPHC?
And what is a "sweetheart"?

Although I'm non-greek, my mother was/is a sweetheart. Back when she was in school 70's-80's I believe certain fraternities had sweethearts and some referred to them as little sisters and such. However, there were some that were used for "other purposes". I'm not sure whether or not sweethearts are as big now as they were when my mom was in school, but I do know that they are frowned upon by some. They are commonly known as being auxillary groups and only "have" 2 letters. Many have their own calls, chants, etc. and I've seen old vids of actual lines and probates.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GggwMk1d3V0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Ub62uWZw60

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by NappyBison

Although I'm non-greek, my mother was/is a sweetheart. Back when she was in school 70's-80's I believe certain fraternities had sweethearts and some referred to them as little sisters and such. However, there were some that were used for "other purposes". I'm not sure whether or not sweethearts are as big now as they were when my mom was in school, but I do know that they are frowned upon by some. They are commonly known as being auxillary groups and only "have" 2 letters. Many have their own calls, chants, etc. and I've seen old vids of actual lines and probates.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GggwMk1d3V0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Ub62uWZw60

From what I understand the only NPHC frat with nationally recognized sweethearts are the Iota.

The Kappas have Silhouettes (their wives) that is its on group. But their used to be sweethearts (friend and gfs) are not recognized. Many of those groups supposedly have incorporated on their own.