I am in love with the idea of sending people an etiquette book...maybe with a little inscription in the cover so it's not returnable too.
I got invited to a wedding shower this summer. It was for my boyfriend's mom's cousin's kid. Yes, really. I got invited because I met the cousin for the first time at my boyfriend's sister's shower. I didn't go because it was the weekend before the bar exam and I had never met the bride or groom. We didn't get invited to the wedding because I didn't go to the shower. Is it bad I was excited I didn't get invited to the wedding?
I know it's "bad form" to invite someone to the shower and not invite them to the wedding but I was actually quite happy about it.