I thought with most sororities, once you signed your bid card, you had a year to "come back", if you don't get initiated then for whatever reason?
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I've tried to get in touch with someone but haven't been able to. I didn't lie about my grades and was told they would be okay but I guess they weren't. I go to Chapman by the way if that helps.
Sprinkle - You mention that you have tried to get in touch with someone, who? I think you need to drop by to see your chapter president and ask her this question. Just let her know you are wondering what your options are, and she can explain the options to you.
If they're not housed (I don't know if Chapman is) then "dropping by" becomes super difficult. The chapter president, vp and new member ed (different groups have different names for the positions) are the women you would ideally speak to about this. You may also want to try to contact the Greek Advisor and Panhellenic VP Recruitment. If worse comes to worse, you could hang outside a Panhellenic council meeting and wait for the chapter president afterwards.
Of course if you come off too overzealous it could seem stalkerish.
I didn't go through the new member period because i didn't get pinned. The sorority doesn't have a house so I don't know how else to get in contact with them. should i wait until the fall or look for them on facebook? I'd really like to know what to do but I don't want to seem like a stalker! Eek!
I didn't go through the new member period because i didn't get pinned. The sorority doesn't have a house so I don't know how else to get in contact with them. should i wait until the fall or look for them on facebook? I'd really like to know what to do but I don't want to seem like a stalker! Eek!
Do not contact them via Facebook!
Since school's letting out for the summer, it's probably best to wait until the Fall. There's really nothing anyone can do right now anyway. You'll be able to explain your situation to someone then and they'll let you know what your options are, as SoCalGirl said earlier.
Agreed! These are important questions you have about your status within the org. Contact someone in person or by phone. Important and personal info shouldn't be discussed via the internet. If you want to use Facebook to contact someone about setting up a meeting or to get their phone number, that's ok.
should i wait until the fall or look for them on facebook? I'd really like to know what to do but I don't want to seem like a stalker! Eek!
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