SAEGuy-good luck! I gave up cigarettes for Lent, and it has been so hard! Especially when I go out and alot of my friends smoke. I thought I'd be all healthy and stuff by not smoking, but I think with all the second hand smoke I'm inhaling it's not making any difference
Anyhoo-most of your brothers should be supportive. my friends tease me about it, but they also refuse to give me cigarettes, no matter how hard I beg. And being sober at a big party isn't so bad-you'll be able to prevent disasters before they happen.