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Old 11-28-2007, 03:11 PM
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And that's it in a nutshell.

Hooking up is different from dating and making someone your girlfriend. In fact, most girls eventually learn that the surest way to NOT make a guy your boyfriend is to hook up with him. And sororities don't like to be known as the "slut" house; my friend's alma mater has a saying about the sororities on campus: (GLOs remain anonymous) "F*#$ a ABC, date a DEF, marry a XYZ." No one wants to be that used, or to be labeled as a "slut" through association.
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Old 11-28-2007, 03:55 PM
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Umm on behalf of people from Alabama I'm going to have to say that the girls are not prudes...they just aren't your everyday whore that you are looking for.
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Old 11-26-2007, 08:23 PM
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1. the girls dont really want to come to the fraternity parties but have to in order to get their points which sucks b/c the mentality isnt there

2. i was so excited about going on dates w/ girls to football games...but i realized soon it didnt even mean anything. alot of the girls had bf's anyway...so its like why are u goin on a date to the fball game w/ me? that was truly dissapointing

3. swaps are fun, but once again many of the girls HAVE to go and dont seem to really wanna take it further i.e goin out to dinner and a move later etc..
I could be wrong but maybe it's you.......I usually only go on dates with guys I'm actually interested in.
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Old 11-26-2007, 08:29 PM
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I could be wrong but maybe it's you.......I usually only go on dates with guys I'm actually interested in.
No one every guaranteed that Joining a Fraternity = Lots of Dates = Partying with the Sorority Girls = Getting Laid

Just from reading your posts, I wouldn't be interested even if you looked like Clooney.
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Old 11-26-2007, 08:32 PM
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I wouldn't be interested even if you looked like Clooney.
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Old 11-26-2007, 09:12 PM
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Well, come on now, let's not get crazy...

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Old 11-26-2007, 09:41 PM
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To help answer your original question, it would behoove you to get involved with other campus outlets other than Greek life. The Greek presence at Bama is huge, but there are other women out there who you could meet somewhere else on campus. In no way are you compromising your fraternal pride, but you could probably meet a gorgeous young woman who will stay over late because she doesn't feel like following the "rules".

It's no guarantee that you'll hook up (whatever your definition of that is), but there is a better chance that you'll have someone who will stop by your house to see you, and not be seen.
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Old 12-16-2008, 04:50 PM
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look guys, here's the bottom line


1. the girls dont really want to come to the fraternity parties but have to in order to get their points which sucks b/c the mentality isnt there

2. i was so excited about going on dates w/ girls to football games...but i realized soon it didnt even mean anything. alot of the girls had bf's anyway...so its like why are u goin on a date to the fball game w/ me? that was truly dissapointing

3. swaps are fun, but once again many of the girls HAVE to go and dont seem to really wanna take it further i.e goin out to dinner and a move later etc..
ok, you are defently wrong. I am a sophomore greek at alabama and tons of girls come to our parties and no just to get points. You must be in a fraternity on new row that gets no girls to start off with. You are making one of the best greek systems in the south look really bad. Just because your isnt good dont bring down the whole greek system at alabama
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Old 12-16-2008, 05:07 PM
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ok, you are defently wrong. I am a sophomore greek at alabama and tons of girls come to our parties and no just to get points. You must be in a fraternity on new row that gets no girls to start off with. You are making one of the best greek systems in the south look really bad. Just because your isnt good dont bring down the whole greek system at alabama
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