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Originally Posted by marquise1911
Frat I feel you. I've never been the type to take my pain out on someone else (now the guilty party is open game). I have been given the short end of the stick too many times. I was so done w/ dating/relationships at first also, but then I realized I still want children and stability and those are two things that I probably will only find in marriage. So I have to keep a eye open. 
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i think the best thing about you is the fact you have kept your options open...a lot of people try marriage, discover the person they are with has done some serious changing, and decided it just wasnt for them 100%. they dont give it a second chance. now, if a person keeps trying ( i have a good friend on wife #4...) and it doesnt work?
they are the common factor and need to do some serious soulsearching! the first time you can chalk it up to youth/immaturity/growth, etc.