Guy who enjoys wearing bras here

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by tld221

umm can someone PM me so i can get in on the DITY? i want to e-lol.

Yeah, what's DITY?

[cheerfulgreek]

ccutoff seriously, this isn't normal. I mean think about what you're saying. You wear a bra! A bra!

You say you have a girlfriend, so like I said, you may be gay and you just don't know it yet.

Can your basesball player buddies see the bra sticking out through your jersey? How are you able to hide this?

What is this world coming to? Guys wearing panties, bras, g strings ect ect. That's sick.

[ccutoff]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

ccutoff seriously, this isn't normal. I mean think about what you're saying. You wear a bra! A bra!

You say you have a girlfriend, so like I said, you may be gay and you just don't know it yet.

Can your basesball player buddies see the bra sticking out through your jersey? How are you able to hide this?

What is this world coming to? Guys wearing panties, bras, g strings ect ect. That's sick.

I never wear my bras to practice or games.

I don't wear anything other than bras. No panties, thongs, g-strings, nothing.

I am not gay. Wearing a bra is just something that I enjoy. Can't tell you exactly why, but I do.

[AC-Choppy]

Lurker finally posting here...

Not quite sure why some of you are surprised or shocked at ccutoff.

Me and some friends applied at Victoria's Secret as a joke one day, and we happened to get hired. We took the job since it was a great part time job(stock associate) and what guy wouldn't want to work there? We did stocking, however, we weren't allowed on the sales floor unless we were needed or if it wasn't busy, since they thought we would make the customers uncomfortable. It was a great summer job and I am going to try to work there part time again this summer. I had the best co-workers and managers, who were all young(25 or younger) and attractive as well.

Anyway, believe it or not, half of our customers were men. Naturally you think they'd shop for their wives/girlfriends/etc., but I would say 1 in every 8 male customers were openly shopping for themselves. And many of these guys shopping for themselves were normal, not fat and no man tits heterosexual men like ccutoff. These male shoppers would try on bras in the fitting room(some stayed in there up to an hour), get fitted for bra size, etc. It was funny to hear our female sales associtates tell me and my friends stories of the men who shop for themselves. The only difference between ccutoff and these men were that I don't recall any of the male shoppers that were ccutoff's age, all the male shoppers I recall were at least high 20s, lower 30s. Most of the male shoppers were above the age of 35.

Anyway, to ccutoff, though I do think its a bit weird and not quite sure what you and others see in it, do what you want. Women can wear mens clothes whenever they want, why can't men wear womens clothes? It's his life.

-Andrew

P.S. yes I have tried wearing a bra but only when me and my friends were dicking around in the back room when we were bored working at VS. I didn't really see what was so great about it but to each person his own.

[susan314]

I hate wearing bras - the only reason I do is b/c it would be very inappropriate for me to go in public without one. When I'm at home (unless I'm expecting company to stop by), one of the first things I do is take the bra off.

The thing that confuses me about why you might enjoy wearing a bra doesn't have so much to do with your gender, as it does why a person who didn't need to wear a bra would bother.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by ccutoff

Kind of weird for my first post here, but I'm gonna start by saying
-I am not gay
-I am not a cross-dresser
-I don't have man-tits
-I am not fat(6 feet 175lbs)
-I am not a transvestite
-I am not a pervert
-I am 20 years old and play baseball for my university

Just thought it would be nice to get this off my chest. I am a guy who just enjoys wearing bras. I just like how they feel, the styles and all that. I have been wearing bras just about every day for about 8 months now. Except when I am at practice, games and sleeping, I have a bra on. I own 7 bras(all from Victoria's Secret ) and my favorite is definatley the Very Sexy Push Up. I have 2 of those. I wore them in the winter under lots of layers, but now summer is coming and I have to be careful wearing bras under less layers of clothes. It's tricky to not be found out, and I have only been found out once. That was on a shuttle, and the young 20 year old woman who caught me had a keen eye and smiled at me, and whispered "I think thats great honestly." I don't know how she found out though, she must have hawk eyes. I don't wear any other womens clothes(no panties, etc.) just bras. No one except that random lady from the shuttle knows about my bra wearing.

I have never told anyone about this, and was just wondering what you all thought. I'm not gay, I just enjoy it.

For the guys: Do you think its gay? Have you ever tried it? If you saw another guy wearing a bra would you do anything about it? Be honest!

For the girls: What do you think? What would your reaction be if you caught a guy wearing a bra? Would you do/say anything or ignore it? Do you like wearing bras? Do you know any guys who do this? Be honest! Don't care how bad you knock me down, I want the cold hard truth!

Thanks in advance

P.S. I have enough chest muscle/tissue to easily fit into a 36A, and can ocassionally fill a 36B depending on style.

o.k. You're wierd.

[PM_Mama00]

My ex... who I should mention WON"T GO AWAY... was into wearing corsetts and panties. I didn't really believed him and thought the corsett he showed me was an ex girlfriends or something. Then I saw him wearing the panties one night.... it was over soon after. Also after that incident I found out how messed up in the head he was.

[cheerfulgreek]

ccutoff I think you might be gay and you just don't know it yet.

[ccutoff]

Originally Posted by tld221

well youre already cool in my book for that pun, intentional or not. +2 bonus points.

hmm, seriously... whatever floats your boat. it would weird me out a little. ok a lot. and then chances are your bras are going to be prettier than mine... i can't risk you upstaging me in the bedroom now...

and yeah, if the random lady on the shuttle bus figured you out (i mean, you can see bra outlines under many fabrics) then im sure others know about it...

lastly, i dont think women enjoy wearing bras. i mean i dont anyway... so go ahead and enjoy it for me!

I am baffled how I got found out on the bus, because before I leave I make sure what positions/poses to avoid so there is no bra outline projection through my shirt.. I try not to draw attention to myself. I guess I must have gotten careless for a split second and she happened to glance at the perfect time, or maybe it was just the lighting on my back. Don't know, but before I go out I always make sure the potential for bra outline projection through my back is as small as it can get. But you are right, maybe others have seen it but just ignored it or not said anything, or didn't let me know. That lady was the only person who has ever let me know about it, and it was a positive experience, much less dreadful than I ever thought getting caught wearing a bra would be. It kind of makes me want to get caught wearing one even more just to get more reactions and such, but I will play it safe for now.

Originally Posted by Dionysus

Don't feel bad, I've packed with rolled up socks.

Oh yeah, I was only like four years old. That type of behavior is somewhat normal at that age. As for you, I think you should reveal this to your teammates when you share hotel beds at your next away game...see what happens!

I think telling my team mates would not be such a great idea

Originally Posted by AC-Choppy

Lurker finally posting here...

Not quite sure why some of you are surprised or shocked at ccutoff.

Me and some friends applied at Victoria's Secret as a joke one day, and we happened to get hired. We took the job since it was a great part time job(stock associate) and what guy wouldn't want to work there? We did stocking, however, we weren't allowed on the sales floor unless we were needed or if it wasn't busy, since they thought we would make the customers uncomfortable. It was a great summer job and I am going to try to work there part time again this summer. I had the best co-workers and managers, who were all young(25 or younger) and attractive as well.

Anyway, believe it or not, half of our customers were men. Naturally you think they'd shop for their wives/girlfriends/etc., but I would say 1 in every 8 male customers were openly shopping for themselves. And many of these guys shopping for themselves were normal, not fat and no man tits heterosexual men like ccutoff. These male shoppers would try on bras in the fitting room(some stayed in there up to an hour), get fitted for bra size, etc. It was funny to hear our female sales associtates tell me and my friends stories of the men who shop for themselves. The only difference between ccutoff and these men were that I don't recall any of the male shoppers that were ccutoff's age, all the male shoppers I recall were at least high 20s, lower 30s. Most of the male shoppers were above the age of 35.

Anyway, to ccutoff, though I do think its a bit weird and not quite sure what you and others see in it, do what you want. Women can wear mens clothes whenever they want, why can't men wear womens clothes? It's his life.

-Andrew

P.S. yes I have tried wearing a bra but only when me and my friends were dicking around in the back room when we were bored working at VS. I didn't really see what was so great about it but to each person his own.

I don't know if I could ever try on bras at the store or browse... when I buy my bras I know exactly what I am getting so I am in and out in a timely fashion. The hard part for me is just stepping into the store, its very hard for me to do. Once I am in the store I am fine but just getting in the store is hard. I'll walk by the store 4-5 times before going in. I have researched the whole "men wearing bras" aspect on the internet.. and you are right, most of the people on the internet who admit that they like wearing bras are not only over the age of 35(more like 40s-50s) but also all out cross-dressers whose online screen names are female names. It freaks me out, that is the problem with my bra wearing - I don't want to be classified with those freaks. I haven't found many subtle bra wearers over the internet.

Originally Posted by susan314

I hate wearing bras - the only reason I do is b/c it would be very inappropriate for me to go in public without one. When I'm at home (unless I'm expecting company to stop by), one of the first things I do is take the bra off.

The thing that confuses me about why you might enjoy wearing a bra doesn't have so much to do with your gender, as it does why a person who didn't need to wear a bra would bother.

I just got curious one day with a bra that was left at my friend's house after a party, and fell in love I guess. I don't see how women hate it...

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

ccutoff I think you might be gay and you just don't know it yet.

Nope, I have a girlfriend and all that! I am definatley NOT gay! If I were to tell anyone I knew about my bra wearing it would be my girlfriend. My family would not understand at all, my friends would think I am gay. But for some reason I think it would turn my girlfriend on? I've read stories on the internet about girlfriends/wives who use bras as a mean of controlling their significant other. Trust me.. I am a normal 20 year old guy. If you would see me in person, you would never suspect me as a person who would have a bra wearing hobby.

[James]

Its funny that you call these "other-bra-wearing-deviants" freaks. Unlike you "normal-bra-wearing-deviants."

I suppose even people that share the same fetish want to feel better about themselves by classifying others as odder than they are . . .

ETA: I am not calling you a name just pointing out that calling others with a more extreme form of your fetish a name seems . . . silly.

Originally Posted by ccutoff

I have researched the whole "men wearing bras" aspect on the internet.. and you are right, most of the people on the internet who admit that they like wearing bras are not only over the age of 35(more like 40s-50s) but also all out cross-dressers whose online screen names are female names. It freaks me out, that is the problem with my bra wearing - I don't want to be classified with those freaks. I haven't found many subtle bra wearers over the internet.

[AlethiaSi]

Originally Posted by ccutoff

Kind of weird for my first post here, but I'm gonna start by saying
-I am not gay
-I am not a cross-dresser
-I don't have man-tits
-I am not fat(6 feet 175lbs)
-I am not a transvestite
-I am not a pervert
-I am 20 years old and play baseball for my university

Just thought it would be nice to get this off my chest. I am a guy who just enjoys wearing bras. I just like how they feel, the styles and all that. I have been wearing bras just about every day for about 8 months now. Except when I am at practice, games and sleeping, I have a bra on. I own 7 bras(all from Victoria's Secret ) and my favorite is definatley the Very Sexy Push Up. I have 2 of those. I wore them in the winter under lots of layers, but now summer is coming and I have to be careful wearing bras under less layers of clothes. It's tricky to not be found out, and I have only been found out once. That was on a shuttle, and the young 20 year old woman who caught me had a keen eye and smiled at me, and whispered "I think thats great honestly." I don't know how she found out though, she must have hawk eyes. I don't wear any other womens clothes(no panties, etc.) just bras. No one except that random lady from the shuttle knows about my bra wearing.

I have never told anyone about this, and was just wondering what you all thought. I'm not gay, I just enjoy it.

For the guys: Do you think its gay? Have you ever tried it? If you saw another guy wearing a bra would you do anything about it? Be honest!

For the girls: What do you think? What would your reaction be if you caught a guy wearing a bra? Would you do/say anything or ignore it? Do you like wearing bras? Do you know any guys who do this? Be honest! Don't care how bad you knock me down, I want the cold hard truth!

Thanks in advance

P.S. I have enough chest muscle/tissue to easily fit into a 36A, and can ocassionally fill a 36B depending on style.

hm... well I am big on doing whatever you want, regardless of what others think as long as you aren't hurting anyone (well... without their consent) so.... My first reaction (being honest here...) is one of shock, however, i've thought about it, and I agree with the woman on the bus....

Gender identity is something that is often confused with that of your genetically based sex (that of male/female) and society dictates how we are supposed to behave when we are of either sex. However, in the case of the transgendered, homo or bi-sexual, these lines are blurry, as they are in this situation. if you enjoy this behavior, then i say you do what you want, you seem to have a good head on your shoulders but perhaps it is not only the wearing of the bra- but the secrecy of it... does that make any sense?
you mentioned in another post that you wanted to tell others, but feared their reaction. I would investigate this further if you want to understand this behavior...
we can talk about it more if you'd like
-Maggie

[jmagnus]

Last year, my GF and I did a "swap" for halloween. It was actually a lost bet. If I won I got to pick the costumes and if she won she got to pick them (I had a nice hooker/pimp idea...oh well) She dressed up in my football uniform left over from high school, shoulder pads and all, and I dressed up in girl clothes. We started getting ready sometime halloween afternoon and had to keep the costumes on until we went to bed (like, 3am). It really wasn't as bad as you might think.

Her and her two friends went to the max on me though. Girl jeans, thigh high's, 3 inch heels, thong, DD bra with water baloons, some sort of tanktop and a sweater. Not to mention a full manicure/pedicure with pink nail polish and fake nails, full makeup and a wig. Remember now, I'm 6'7" and about 250lbs. These are the differences I noticed:

Girl's jeans are much warmer than guy's
I should have shaved my legs b/c my leg hair hurt like hell when I took them off
The bra wasn't as bad as she always made it out to be...
...My back did hurt like hell by the end of the night though
A thong, as good as it may look on you ladies, hurts like hell too
Heels are, also, quite painful after a while
It's a bitch to open beer cans with fake nails on(yes, my "man" had to open them for me)
Makeup is a pain and a half to take off.

Now, all I have to say after that experience, is that I respect you ladies quite a bit more. I had no idea the pain you have to go through to look beautiful for us guys. I can understand why women would need to wear a bra (my GF also had some of those creepy fake boob things. you know, they stick to you and bring you up a cup size to help fit into a dress or something. she made me wear those for an hour w/o a bra...the jiggeling was quite uncomfortable) But I still can't understand why a guy would want to. Even though it wasn't that uncomfortable, I can say that I wouldn't want to wear one again.

Oh well, now that I have creeped you out...to each their own I guess.

[DaemonSeid]

Originally Posted by ccutoff

Just thought it would be nice to get this off my chest.

This is where I stopped reading......a geniuine TMI moment.