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03-22-2007, 12:47 AM
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I think you misread. What I'm saying is, if we are both inexperienced I'd feel dumb. I will stand by MY beleifs but I can't force "him" to beleive in waiting. By the time I meet him if he has lost it already, he can't take it back and I have to know that now before I meet someone. At any rate, I think I'd feel more comfortable with him knowing things about sex versus someone who doesn't know anything.
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03-22-2007, 10:10 AM
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Originally Posted by ziasha07
I will stand by MY beleifs but I can't force "him" to beleive in waiting.
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Which is exactly why the "how many" question is dumb to ask a man or a woman.
Keep standing for YOUR beliefs and living YOUR life.
The only things you should care about regarding a man's past are: 1) if he's been regularly tested for ALL STDS and can prove that he's negative, 2) does he have children, legititimate or illegitimate, and 3) does he have remnants of his past (former lovers, a desire to be a playa, etc.) haunting him still.
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03-22-2007, 12:34 AM
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Originally Posted by centaur532
I used to be a strong christian...before I lost my faith and became a giant asshole...anywho I also used to believe the same thing. If I had nothing to compare to, the sex would be amazing to me.
The reality is sorely disappointing. You won't know what you're doing in bed, if he's a virgin, he won't know, most likely you'll be really shy about your sexuality and after repressing it for so long, who knows if you'll ever be able to truly open up?
I'm not saying run out, sleep around like a $10 hooker, but...IDK...maybe wait until you're engaged?
Sex is not that great unless someone knows what the hell they're doing in bed. Anyone here will tell you that.
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I'm sorry your reality was sorely disappointing. But not to sound like I'm trivializing the whole thing but....it's sex. I will know what I'm doing. I may not do it very well, but I'll have my whole life to practice. Even if that first time, neither or us knows what we're doing, that won't be true forever. Eventually, one of us will know "what the hell we're doing." I'm a smart cookie and pretty aggressive...I'll figure it out. 
New question: AFTER 2 YEARS, WHY IS THE ONLY THREAD I POST THAT IS ABOUT SEX THE ONLY TO BECOME A "HOT" THREAD?? All the others died after like a page except for one I think.
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03-22-2007, 12:49 AM
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What a second...HOW'D WE GET BACK TO THIS TOPIC?? lol We're supposed to talk about the potentially diseased people we're dating.
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Last edited by christiangirl; 03-22-2007 at 12:51 AM.
Reason: because I accidentally hijacked again
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03-22-2007, 12:57 AM
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Originally Posted by christiangirl
What a second...HOW'D WE GET BACK TO THIS TOPIC?? lol We're supposed to talk about the potentially diseased people we're dating.
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CHLAMYDIA IS A FLOWER I SWEAR!
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03-22-2007, 12:59 AM
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Wow... Great connection.  
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