It's about choices...

[tld221]

Brains 10 i get aggravated when i get a sense of the lack of brains people have. that's men or women. but a dumb man is really a shame. however, if a man really had no brains, i wouldnt expect him to put a decent joke together, or be able to explain something to me, or really verbally express himself. and i cant have no dull, stuttering fool.

plus, sometimes i really like me a nerdy, brainy dude, especially if he totally knows it - then you have more fun and you dont have that weird "omg she thinks im a dork" thing in your head.

Beauty 1 i have been attracted to a WIDE range of dudes, and the ones i felt the strongest about were typically the least attractive, in a physical sense. your looks can go, but if thats all you have going for you, then what makes you better than the next dude? plus, EVERYONE knows that an average dude can walk into a room and even if he looks like he is about his ish, chicks will be lining up.

realize also that beauty and hygiene overlap, but not necessarily the same. i mean you can be gorgeous, but if your breaf stank and yo lips are cracked up, that is not beautiful at all. but, a very trimmed man can still be unattractive.

Body 1 again, been attracted to a wide range of bodies. i figure when it comes down to gettin busy, your ish is either good or bad. and the lights are out. body parts are gonna jiggle and squish and do all sorts of stuff. now if you a little bigger, then a little more squishy goin on. if it dont bother him, it dont bother me.

Money 1 im with the general consensus. if you have the brains, then i will hope my man will use them to get that money. and then use them brains some more to turn that money into wealth, so were not filing for bankruptcy years down the line. so yeah, you can show up broke, but dont plan on staying that way, or you wont be staying here!

Personality 10 i think it takes some kinda brains to have personality. so, with the same theory, if you have brains, then you will be academically and mentally diverse to have such personality. too much of anything is no good, so if a man can get some depth in his character, i am with it!

Utility (i.e. s/he can do whatever you need a mate to do for you in any area you would choose) 10 this goes hand in hand with the brains. if your brain can handle decent thought processes, you can surely put things together, explain when things go wrong, run errands, and pretty much hold the fort down. and that is a big turn on when a man can handle his and be secure in it. even if he's wrong sometimes, the fact that he didnt call me to get help or complain, rather, the fact that he took charge says a lot.

again, LOVE IT when a man can pick up a book and explain something i dont understand (maybe this is why i always fall for educators - teachers, tutors, coaches) or talk fluently on a topic - LOVE IT!

[BellaSF]

[QUOTE=TonyB06;1401889]Your Dream mate has arrived

[BellaSF]

Personality- He has to keep me entertained for life.

Brains- I don't like stupid people and I certainly do NOT want dumb kids running around the house!

Beauty- He has to be able to get me going. Plus I don't want butt ugly kids running around ( money could buy plastic surgery, but the kids would still come out butt ugly)!

*The rest are ranked 1s.

[Honeykiss1974]

Personality / Brains / Utility-10
These are a must! I love a god fearing man with a sense of humor and an intellect. Someone that can talk about things from the effects of Haliburton's HQ move to the Dubai province to why he believes Tupac is alive lol. A versatile intellect is SEXY! I also like "manly men" - a guy that is good with his hands as well so utility is important to me too.

Money / Body / Beauty - 1
I put money here because I'm not looking to marry a millionaire (although no complaints if he was one LOL). I'm happy with a man that has a satisfying career topped with ambition and goals. In terms of beauty/body, I'm attracted to all types. Plus, a guys personality plays a BIG part into any attraction or chemistry that will exist. A man can be fine, but if he opens his mouth and it sounds like he is stuck on stupid - any attraction is GONE!

[_Opi_]

Personality 10 - self-explanatory

Brains 10 - very important. I should be able to have an intellectual conversation with him at some point. I am attracted to smart guys as well.

Body 10 - Attraction is very important. And I'm attracted to atheletically-built guys

Money 1 - this was very close to making the list.

Beauty 1 - Yeah, I'm typically not attracted to pretty boys. Handsome - yes. But not really good-looking.

Utility 1 - I'm fairly self-sufficient, so this unimportant

[Krucial Keys]

Brains(10)I must be able to engage in a intelligent conversation with you. I am a verbal person and verbal banter is a form of foreplay 4 me. If you’re lacking in that dept. than I will most def lose interest. Besides what the hayle am I suppose to do with you when we have to socials with my friends and you can not come up with a witty response. Not to mention I have a very low tolerance for stupid people.

Beauty(10) I know this is shallow but you have to look good. Plain and simple...I know beauty is only skin deep but ugly is to the bone. I have to be attracted to you on some level.

Body(1) Body image can change instance. As long as your not so skinny you can hula hoop with a cheerio or as big as a house then were cool.

Money(1) Don't trip I got my own. We both have careers I am not worried about that.

Personality(10) I have a very charismatic personality. I need someone with as much personality if not more to compliment me.

Utility (i.e. s/he can do whatever you need a mate to do for you in any area you would choose) (1) I am a very independent woman. I can get around that obstacle.

[1908Revelations]

See you should have given me a range not 1 or 10, but 1-10 , but I will follow directions. YOu said we HAD to choose three.

Brains-1 I hate this one. I want all 10s....darn it TonyB

Beauty-10. I have to be initally attracted to him!

Body-1 , I generally like my guys tall, slim, and pretty! But maybe, I could possibly, sacrifice a little tennie bit.

Money-10 How the hell are we gonna pay people to fix things if we don't have money. I don't have any children currently, but I can't afford myself, so I know kids will require me to have some cheddar!

Personality-10 I need to not be bored. I am funny (sometimes ) so I don't need a stiff ass.

Utility-1 We could read the directions to whatever needs to be fixed (I am pretty handy!) or like everyone else said....we can pay someone to fix things for us

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by 1908Revelations

See you should have given me a range not 1 or 10, but 1-10 , but I will follow directions. YOu said we HAD to choose three.

Brains-1 I hate this one. I want all 10s....darn it TonyB

Beauty-10. I have to be initally attracted to him!

Body-1 , I generally like my guys tall, slim, and pretty! But maybe, I could possibly, sacrifice a little tennie bit.

Money-10 How the hell are we gonna pay people to fix things if we don't have money. I don't have any children currently, but I can't afford myself, so I know kids will require me to have some cheddar!

Personality-10 I need to not be bored. I am funny (sometimes ) so I don't need a stiff ass.

Utility-1 We could read the directions to whatever needs to be fixed (I am pretty handy!) or like everyone else said....we can pay someone to fix things for us

What do you mean you can't afford yourself? I just paid you for your wedding planning services. You spent it already, or did the check bounce?

[1908Revelations]

PB, you are tooo funny, don't try to fix your toe sucking by joking with me J/K