In the same predicatment

eyeswideopen · #1 03-28-2006, 10:28 PM

Hello Ladies,

I am currently an undergraduate student who is currently trying to find my way around the greek world. I am vastly interested in your organization but I am not sure as to how to approach the ladies in my area without offending or coming across disrespectful. I have no intention on bringing disprect to any of the women involved nor the organization, I simply seek advice to as to address an individual about my interest. Know that I have contemplated this decision for the past two years of my collegiate life as well since high school. I find this to be something that I cannot draw away from nor do I seek to.

If someone could please let me know as to the proper approach it would be greatl helpful. Thank you all for you time and many blessings!

~confused and wondering

Dionysus · #2 03-28-2006, 11:44 PM

In the same predicament as who?

Angelibrown · #3 03-28-2006, 11:51 PM

i am about to send you a pm. read it or if not i can give you my aim and we can talk.

P.S. I am not a Zeta, i am currently an interest but i do have advice to offer you.

Pretty Kitty · #4 03-30-2006, 03:36 PM

El Sigh....

AlphaFrog · #5 03-30-2006, 03:39 PM

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Originally posted by Dionysus
In the same predicament as who?

I think she's wondering if anyone else is in the same predicament.

PS In before the lock.

Angelibrown · #6 03-30-2006, 04:45 PM

no the issue was alittle more complicated than that. Despite what the question may ask the context was not clearly expressed. Either way she received advice and before anyone feels offended, it wasn't one of those questions that only ZPB could ask it was more of a general thing.

AlphaFrog · #7 03-30-2006, 05:22 PM

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Originally posted by Angelibrown
no the issue was alittle more complicated than that. Despite what the question may ask the context was not clearly expressed. Either way she received advice and before anyone feels offended, it wasn't one of those questions that only ZPB could ask it was more of a general thing.

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From the "House Rules":
On membership: Membership into Zeta is by invitation through only two conduits--a graduate or an undergraduate chapter. As such, your first and primary information source is through these avenues.

After you become a member, you will learn everything about this illustrious organization. Until that time, please do not ask any member of Zeta questions about membership or the membership process, which includes asking about information outside of what you will find at the Zeta Phi Beta International Web site www.zphib1920.org. The moderators will edit, lock or delete message threads that violate this request. When in doubt, PM (private message) a moderator before you post.

Angelibrown · #8 03-30-2006, 05:24 PM

....and like i stated it was a little more complicated than that. Had anyone else offered to assist her they would know this. Her question was not related to membership nor did she ask "HOW DO I BECOME AN XYZ".

No need to repost the house rules, i read them when i first got on this forum. But thank you anyway.