GreekChat.com Forums  

Go Back   GreekChat.com Forums > Greek Life
Register FAQ Community Calendar Today's Posts Search

Greek Life This forum is for various discussion topics regarding greek life. If you are posting a non-greek related message, please do so in one of the General Chat Topic forums.

» GC Stats
Members: 329,905
Threads: 115,689
Posts: 2,207,185
Welcome to our newest member, aelizabethahvso
» Online Users: 4,758
4 members and 4,754 guests
3DGator, Iota_JWH, LaneSig
Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 12-22-2005, 10:47 PM
Firehouse Firehouse is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2002
Posts: 780
Kudos to 33girl, who articulated the division between the equity (good) feminists and the gender (evil) feminists. She is absolutely right.
As for "Italian" sororities and "feminisits" sororities...who cares? It just shows the value of our Greek system: we provide this wonderful structure that everyone else wants. Let them establish themselves and flourish as they will. If they have no traction they will die out naturally.
Reply With Quote
  #2  
Old 12-23-2005, 12:25 AM
DSTCHAOS DSTCHAOS is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Down the street
Posts: 9,791
Quote:
Originally posted by SigmaKappaRoyal
just to be clear, I'M not saying that... that's just what i read the first paragraph as the author trying to get across.
Whoever's saying it, that's a sorority stereotype I was unaware of.
__________________
Always my fav LL song. Sorry, T La Rock, LL killed it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E5NCQ...eature=related
Pebbles and Babyface http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kl-paDdmVMU
Deele "Two Occasions" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUvaB...eature=related
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 12-23-2005, 12:28 AM
DSTCHAOS DSTCHAOS is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Down the street
Posts: 9,791
33girl rocks.
__________________
Always my fav LL song. Sorry, T La Rock, LL killed it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E5NCQ...eature=related
Pebbles and Babyface http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kl-paDdmVMU
Deele "Two Occasions" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUvaB...eature=related
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 12-23-2005, 01:03 AM
KDMafia KDMafia is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Northwest Indiana
Posts: 245
Send a message via AIM to KDMafia
I didn't gather that they thought the sex toy parties were feminists and that's not what I took offense at. I took a offense at the following comments about how the reason these girls are different is because one of them made a comment about "polynesian culture influences."

To me that insinuated that what seperated them from us "non-feminist" sorority members was that they could also be intelligent. I dont need to recite how we as greek organizations look to set high academic standards, you guys are in them you know.

Now maybe if the sorority focused on areas specifically to help women I could understand the lable feminist but to claim they deserve the label feminist because they make intellectual comments is ridiculous.

I am a self-proclaimed feminist, not the fem-nazis, but i believe that it is a women's choice to do what she wants with her life as long as it doens't hurt others. So i'm not one of the ones that gives feminism a bad name. I hope
__________________
"A mind needs books as a sword needs a whetstone"
You're not in over your head, you're out of your comfort zone.
Articles about millennial's will always make me bang my head against the wall. The kids are alright.
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 12-23-2005, 01:11 AM
AGDee AGDee is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: Michigan
Posts: 15,843
33girl, thanks for taking the time to look those distinctions up! I learned something new today. When I think of feminists, I first think of Equity Feminists and this may be partly my age and family experience. My mother's family has a long history of involvement in the League of Women's Voters and as Suffragettes. My mother taught me about the ERA and what it said/meant.

NebraskaDelt: It's too bad you had an experience with women like that. I suppose it was much like when we have to deal with men who think we should all be barefoot and pregnant, so most of us do understand how upsetting it is. Those kinds of nutcases make us all look bad!

Dee
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 12-23-2005, 06:28 AM
Erik P Conard Erik P Conard is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2001
Posts: 943
Trinity--a new beginning

I salute the ladies at Trinity for their intrusion into the bastion of
the once-PC place. Perhaps there is a need to be filled indeed. Why, right here in rustic Colorado a store for weight gain has opened and doing well. I think the fat girl sorority may open a chapter at U of Colo-Colorado Springs, a new school which the
Pi Phis have pioneered. The fatsos'll afford them some great competition. Some of the bulemics in here can shop at the weight gain clinic here, have a Colorado vacation, take on some tonnage whilst being a pioneer in another greek movement.
Yep, 2006 is really looking up.
SO, our speedometer is soon at zero, and I hope we can stir up
some ugly correspondence, fueling the nasties, and getting a good start. Cheers!
But with Tommy still a greek adonis with narrow hips and small
waist, there must be a place for him. Maybe some of those who
have bashed him will begin to look in directions unexplored.
At any rate, a new thread for the fatsos and the hatefuls....Har
Har Har de Har Har as our old pal Ralph Kramden'd say...R.I.P.
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 12-24-2005, 01:51 PM
33girl 33girl is offline
Moderator
 
Join Date: Sep 2000
Location: Hotel Oceanview
Posts: 34,564
Re: Trinity--a new beginning

Quote:
Originally posted by Erik P Conard
Why, right here in rustic Colorado a store for weight gain has opened and doing well.
I'll probably be sorry I asked, but I'm sick and easily amused. What is the "store for weight gain?"
__________________
It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old 12-24-2005, 02:14 PM
Rain Man Rain Man is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2000
Location: Studio 33 (aka The Bob Barker Studio), CBS Television City
Posts: 1,609
A brotherhood movement to counter orgs such as that is currently in progress

Myself and several other gentlemen are in the process of starting a Greek movement to counter such sororities and what they stand for.

Can't give too many details right now; we're in the preliminary stages but we feel our counter movement will gain momentum very quickly once it takes hold.

More details later.

Stay tuned.
Reply With Quote
  #9  
Old 12-25-2005, 01:29 AM
pinkyphimu pinkyphimu is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2002
Location: Boston, MA
Posts: 1,797
that sounds like a train wreck. the article seems focused on parties and alcohol (even mentioning that boxed wine is the drink of choice for this group) and that the jock fraternity was worried that their reputation would have changed after hanging out with the nerdy girls. i don't know if it is the group that is terrible or if the author is terrible.
__________________
Proud to be a Macon Magnolia
Reply With Quote
  #10  
Old 12-25-2005, 03:13 AM
AlphaPhiBubbles AlphaPhiBubbles is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: San Francisco and Chico, CA
Posts: 448
Send a message via AIM to AlphaPhiBubbles
I think that the biggest mistake this article makes, besides using Robbin's opinions/comments, is the use of the word feminism without a proper definition. Of course I didn't read the entire article, just what was posted...but I know that besides what some in this thread are calling "bad" and "good" feminists (a value judgement I think is a little harsh) there are practically hundreds of different kinds of feminist movements. These days, calling someone or something "feminist" is not really saying much as far as describing that thing or person.
Reply With Quote
  #11  
Old 12-25-2005, 03:32 PM
valkyrie valkyrie is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2001
Location: WWJMD?
Posts: 7,561
Re: A brotherhood movement to counter orgs such as that is currently in progress

Quote:
Originally posted by Rain Man
Myself and several other gentlemen are in the process of starting a Greek movement to counter such sororities and what they stand for.

Can't give too many details right now; we're in the preliminary stages but we feel our counter movement will gain momentum very quickly once it takes hold.

More details later.

Stay tuned.
Are you going to start a white power Greek movement as well?
__________________
A hiney bird is a bird that flies in perfectly executed, concentric circles until it eventually flies up its own behind and poof! disappears forever....
-Ken Harrelson
Reply With Quote
  #12  
Old 12-25-2005, 03:38 PM
Rain Man Rain Man is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2000
Location: Studio 33 (aka The Bob Barker Studio), CBS Television City
Posts: 1,609
Re: A brotherhood movement to counter orgs such as that is currently in progress

Quote:
Originally posted by valkyrie
Are you going to start a white power Greek movement as well?
(read: whatever the freak that means)

As I indicated before:

More details later.

Stay tuned.

Merry Christmas and a happy holiday to all.

Last edited by Rain Man; 12-25-2005 at 03:49 PM.
Reply With Quote
  #13  
Old 12-26-2005, 01:05 AM
PM_Mama00 PM_Mama00 is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: Michigan
Posts: 5,810
Send a message via AIM to PM_Mama00 Send a message via Yahoo to PM_Mama00
Re: Trinity--a new beginning

Quote:
Originally posted by Erik P Conard
I salute the ladies at Trinity for their intrusion into the bastion of
the once-PC place. Perhaps there is a need to be filled indeed. Why, right here in rustic Colorado a store for weight gain has opened and doing well. I think the fat girl sorority may open a chapter at U of Colo-Colorado Springs, a new school which the
Pi Phis have pioneered. The fatsos'll afford them some great competition. Some of the bulemics in here can shop at the weight gain clinic here, have a Colorado vacation, take on some tonnage whilst being a pioneer in another greek movement.
Yep, 2006 is really looking up.
SO, our speedometer is soon at zero, and I hope we can stir up
some ugly correspondence, fueling the nasties, and getting a good start. Cheers!
But with Tommy still a greek adonis with narrow hips and small
waist, there must be a place for him. Maybe some of those who
have bashed him will begin to look in directions unexplored.
At any rate, a new thread for the fatsos and the hatefuls....Har
Har Har de Har Har as our old pal Ralph Kramden'd say...R.I.P.

Hey Erik. Clean out your PM box. Merry Christmas.


And back on topic... well kinda not I guess... but I don't get why it's so bad to talk about sex toys and buying them as gag gifts to sisters. If it makes you uncomfortable then I understand, but it just sounds like a normal conversation that I've overheard and taken part of that happens with Greeks and non-Greeks.
__________________
Proud to be a Macon Magnolia!

KLTC
Reply With Quote
  #14  
Old 12-26-2005, 01:25 PM
rhochi2002 rhochi2002 is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: where's Waldo
Posts: 198
I don't see the big deal with sex toys. I bought one of my sisters the Kama Sutra for her birthday, she wanted a copy. When I was in college one of the sisters hosted a sex toy party, it was fun and definately a learning experience!
I don't get the connect with them and feminism.
Also I am not sure that I would call women that hate men feminist, they should have a different name.
I consider myself feminist. My sorority promotes women issues but I wouldn't call it a feminist organization. Maybe there is a place for a sorority that promotes feminist ideals? The article isn't really clear what seperates the sorority for other organizations.
__________________
KD Alumna

Last edited by rhochi2002; 12-26-2005 at 01:30 PM.
Reply With Quote
  #15  
Old 12-26-2005, 01:48 PM
DSTCHAOS DSTCHAOS is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Down the street
Posts: 9,791
What you do regarding sex is your personal business.

When people associate sex toys with "the sorority experience" or feminism, there's an issue. I'm not saying this article was doing either of the two.

The sex toy thing was not the main point to be gotten from this feminist sorority article. It just stood out to me because some people made it seem common for sororities to give sex toy gifts to each other. I was unaware of that trend OR I figured that trend was associated with the personal preferences of certain women and not being in a sorority.
__________________
Always my fav LL song. Sorry, T La Rock, LL killed it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E5NCQ...eature=related
Pebbles and Babyface http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kl-paDdmVMU
Deele "Two Occasions" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUvaB...eature=related
Reply With Quote
Reply


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off



All times are GMT -4. The time now is 12:30 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions Inc.