First Love

wannabez · #1 08-16-2001, 06:10 PM

Me and my boyfriend (ex for right now) have been together since I was in the 11th grade. He is my first REAL love and I was just wondering have any of you stayed with and married your first love and if so did you all break up for a while or have you been together the whole time.

Chi_ZETABBW · #2 08-16-2001, 06:47 PM

I'm going to step out on a limb here, because offering advice on personal matters, I tend to stay away from. All I will say is enjoy the time you have now being single and date to see what else is out there or I should say who else.

DarknLovlieZeta · #3 08-18-2001, 05:44 PM

I was just down in Seattle visiting my mom (during a school vacation), and I saw my ex-boyfriend that I haven't seen in 7 years!! We were together back in my freshman year in high school. All of a sudden, we meet again, and we've been kickin' it everyday ever since. We had a good relationship in high school, but what made us break up was a bunch of 'he say, she say' stuff, and we really don't know why we broke up. I guess you can say he's my first love. We never had sexual intercourse, but I love him. He's very special to me, and I'm not into long-distance relationships (they never work for me!), so we're gonna have to wait and see what happens after I graduate......

PrettyKitty · #4 08-20-2001, 10:23 AM

As they say, if it was meant to be, you'll get back together...

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DopeZeta · #5 08-21-2001, 03:43 PM

Nah..I think you have to work at it...Can't just depend on Fate.

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lil_sunshine · #6 10-24-2001, 07:34 PM

Honestly, I've never had a relationship with my first love, who is my best friend, 9476 (his b'date). He and I both know that we have feelings for each other, but he's in Philly and I'm here in NYC going to school. We'd like to be together, but I'll see what happens when I apply to law school. I met him when we were both attending Howard U. in the Fall of '94. Out of the guys that I've been with (3 total), I've done comparisons with all of them with 9476 and none of them came even remotely close to how 9476 made, and still makes, me feel. I had my first b'friend when I was 20 and I lost my virginity to him, but he could never hold a candle to 9476.

wannabez · #7 11-01-2001, 11:54 PM

you will all be happy to know that we got back together in the middle of october and things have been great ever since.