How NOT to act

[uksparkle]

Originally posted by Betarulz!
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*Be frugal with the toilet paper...I NEVER went through as much toilet paper in one year as I did last year, I was constantly out. Also, the tri-delts twice flooded my bathroom b/c they were using so much.

[B]

Haha, sorry but that made me laugh! You know how Tri-Delts are with TP

[exlurker]

Originally posted by Betarulz!
. . . *Do not pee outside...that's about the worse thing ever, and the surest thing that will get neighbors to call the cops. . . .


*Remember, you are representing your sorority at all times. . . .

Betarulz, your whole list is good advice, but the two comments above are excellent. I agree that even if she's not wearing letters, a sorority member or new member should avoid peeing outside, especially when drunk. (The exception would be on a wilderness adventure / camping trip.) Isn't this something most sorority chapters would have in their by-laws anyway?

[honeychile]

Originally posted by exlurker
Isn't this something most sorority chapters would have in their by-laws anyway?

I have to believe that, when our charter was granted in 1851, the very thought of a lady going to the bathroom in anything but a privy or a chamber pot was not even considered! Over 154 years later, I'd like to think that it's STILL something considered private!

[Betarulz!]

I do want to say that no girls peed outside while I was a host of a party, mainly because the events I tended to host were somewhat smaller.And it definitely is a bigger problem keeping guys from doing it. But there have definitely been times and parties during my years when girls did some surprising things (like the girl we called bottletop, b/c she managed to go in a bottle while on a bus trip to a riverboat party...we found out b/c she told us.)

[thetalady]

PICTURES ARE FOREVER!!!

Not only forever, but a lot of schools have party pics on-line that can be accessed by anyone... even the parents that may be paying those tuition bills! Once on-line, you can never be sure there isn't a picture of you acting a fool out there that could pop up when & where you least expect it.

[D.0.7]

consider acting out the whole presentation. It seems to be the best way to get your point accross, and also get them invloved in the process while your acting it out. Remember Action Speaks Louder Than Words.

[frathole]

Don't do drugs in public. Not ladylike.

[kathykd2005]

Originally Posted by frathole

Don't do drugs in public. Not ladylike.

Dear God, I really hope this was a sarcastic comment.

[sugarplumfairy]

I saw a bumper-sticker the other day that said "MySpace ruined my life"...ain't it the truth?

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by sugarplumfairy

I saw a bumper-sticker the other day that said "MySpace ruined my life"...ain't it the truth?

Not if you don't put stuff you don't want the world to see on your Myspace. Easy.

[Zeta13Girl]

- Remember that you are at someone elses house, so be respectful

- You shouldn't be going upstairs(ie.. the bedroom floor) at all unless that is where the bathroom is located

-When a sober sister cuts you off its usually because A.) your doing something thats embarrassing other sisters B.) your sister wants you to be alive and healthy the next day

-Don't leave the party to hook up with someone and then return back to the party (its just trashy)

-If you want to hook up with a boy take him home to your room, otherwise the whole fraternity will know you did it with john smith from XYZ before your even out of the bedroom (trust me guys gossip just as much as girls esp. on this topic)

-DO NOT pee on a fraternity's couch even if it is in the basement and other people have probably already peed on it.

-Don't take drinks outside

-Don't makeout with guys in front of everyone, its just slutty

-DO try to e social fraternities aren't going to want to mix with girls that huddle in a group and stand in a corner



FOR GUYS
-Dont talk about the sorority negatively while your at a mixer with them trust me girls always overhear things


always emember this is what my mom and dad use to tell me remember when you go out in public you aren't jus representing your self your representing the whole family (ie sorority/fraternity) if you do something inappropriate people will think that your brothers or sisters condone that kind of behavior.


mmm i probably have more I just can't think of them ... and yes I've heard ofall of these happening on our campus!

[nittanyalum]

Originally Posted by Zeta13Girl

DO NOT pee on a fraternity's couch even if it is in the basement and other people have probably already peed on it.

People do that?!?!????
Ewwwwwwww...

[33girl]

Originally Posted by Zeta13Girl;1595582[COLOR=darkorchid

-DO NOT pee on a fraternity's couch even if it is in the basement and other people have probably already peed on it.[/COLOR]

hahahahaha.

I love Pennsylvania.

[flirt5721]

If a sister tells you that you are being dumb and need to leave you should do it. We have a word CORA that if it is called that person do what the other said. Only if they are representing the chapter in a bad way.

[Stef the Pef]

Originally posted by honeychile
I have to believe that, when our charter was granted in 1851, the very thought of a lady going to the bathroom in anything but a privy or a chamber pot was not even considered! Over 154 years later, I'd like to think that it's STILL something considered private!

Eesh, that brings up some sticky situations--one of the organizations at Baylor's the Chamber of Commerce, which is often referred in jest as "chamber pots."

If it's not a porcelain "pot," don't use it.

Lots of great advice, though I'd add not letting the cops in under any circumstances. I think they have to have a warrant to search your house unless you invite them in. Stick some sober folks on door duty and keep the cops (and anyone on a persona non grata list) out.

I don't even like to have a camera out at parties. You never know when your mom's going to search your computer at home for "what is my little sweetie doing at college?" Don't have the evidence of you or your friends three sheets to the wind by not creating it in the first place.