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09-15-2005, 09:56 AM
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I don't feel offended by strip clubs. Hell, I've gone to strip clubs before.
I think the people who talk about insecurity on the part of women are probably right. I was seeing a guy not too long ago who was surprised when I told him that I didn't care if he went to watch the strippers, because his ex absolutely refused to let him go.
I kinda feel that if I'm dating someone, I should have enough trust in him that he's not going to do something stupid if he goes. Knowing that I am the one that he is going to come home to is enough for me.
Then again, I have never seen a strip club as a "hook-up" opportunity for guys... rather just entertainment.
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09-15-2005, 10:02 AM
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Originally posted by cashmoney
All of you women out there that are using this word in relation to fears of strip clubs, stop lying. Why don't you all just say you thought you were fat or ugly in comparison to the women there until you actually saw some of those women. "Well I just felt insecure about my man going to those places" You didnt think you were hot enough and were afraid your man would meet someone hotter than you and dip out.
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No. I was just generally insecure with myself (you know, the whole awkward teenager thing)....and you can't be secure with your relationships until you've gotten your own issues squared away. When you're an insecure person, many irrational fears can be perceived as a threat.
And Cash...there is always someone hotter.  Different does not equal better.
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09-15-2005, 10:07 AM
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Nope, not threatened by strip clubs at all.
He has been a few times with his buddy after he got divorced and while he was dating me (the buddy I mentioned in the "whipped" post). (We were living 2 hours apart).
I had no problem with it. I was like "ok cool, see ya! Have fun and don't be spending all your money!"
His buddy was amazed that I was cool with it.
As far as I am concerned, he can get his hunger pangs elsewhere...just as long as he comes home for dinner 
He hasn't been to the strip club in years (since his bachelor party right before our wedding). If he were to go out with "whipped buddy", fine...no prob
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09-15-2005, 10:33 AM
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Originally posted by Jill1228
As far as I am concerned, he can get his hunger pangs elsewhere...just as long as he comes home for dinner
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I love this! Haha. 
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09-15-2005, 10:53 AM
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I have no issues with the husband going to strip clubs; I've even gone with him a few times (though the local establishments are far from classy and I have nothing to feel threatened about).
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09-15-2005, 11:05 AM
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"Threatened" is a big word. Actually, I just think strip clubs are for guys, not men. The only males over 30 that you see there are pretty creepy.
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Originally posted by winnieb
I think the typical line you will hear from alot of women is that strip clubs exploit women.... my opinion that is a load of crap.
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Actually, I know a couple strippers and two former prostitutes. If you knew what actually went on (moneywise) in the sex industry, you'd better understand that these women are exploited! Obviously, the prostitutes more so than the strippers.
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Originally posted by cashmoney
All of you women out there that are using this word in relation to fears of strip clubs, stop lying. Why don't you all just say you thought you were fat or ugly in comparison to the women there until you actually saw some of those women. "Well I just felt insecure about my man going to those places" You didnt think you were hot enough and were afraid your man would meet someone hotter than you and dip out.
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ROTFL!!!!! Hardly!!!!
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09-15-2005, 11:10 AM
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Originally posted by Jill1228
As far as I am concerned, he can get his hunger pangs elsewhere...just as long as he comes home for dinner
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Very well put! lol
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09-15-2005, 12:44 PM
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I think that a lot of the women who have never been to a strip club have a very misguided idea of what they're like.
I don't know any woman who's actually BEEN to a strip club who still is threatened by it.
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09-15-2005, 01:12 PM
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Originally posted by Lindz928
Then again, I have never seen a strip club as a "hook-up" opportunity for guys... rather just entertainment.
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ummmmm...
-Rudey
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09-15-2005, 01:22 PM
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Am I the only one here that looks at strippers as glorified prostitutes? I havent met one yet that wont come up off the ass for a little bit of cash.
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09-15-2005, 01:27 PM
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Originally posted by cashmoney
Am I the only one here that looks at strippers as glorified prostitutes? I havent met one yet that wont come up off the ass for a little bit of cash.
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No.
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09-15-2005, 01:33 PM
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Originally posted by cashmoney
Am I the only one here that looks at strippers as glorified prostitutes? I havent met one yet that wont come up off the ass for a little bit of cash.
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Well it's nice to admit that you have in fact bought prostitutes before.
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09-15-2005, 01:56 PM
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Originally posted by BetteDavisEyes
Well it's nice to admit that you have in fact bought prostitutes before.
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You know me, I'm the prostitute king.  Seriously, though, every stripper I've met always talks about how all the other girls fuck for money but they themselves wont. Riiiight.
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09-15-2005, 02:15 PM
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Originally posted by cashmoney
What, are you going to come home from work and strip down bare nakked for me and bend over and let me see that pussy shake while wearing those stripper heels? I don't think so.
-Thats why I like strip clubs.
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You couldn't afford her anyway. 
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09-15-2005, 02:34 PM
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Originally posted by cashmoney
Seriously, though, every stripper I've met always talks about how all the other girls fuck for money but they themselves wont. Riiiight.
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Yeah I've heard this too but on some occasions, I actually believe them.
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