The Ex Effect

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by OtterXO
Hon.....I was kidding. The bf is such a great guy and I have no desire to be with anyone else right now. How do you like me overcoming my no-commital ways? I was just poking fun at a story from here....remember? If not I'll paraphrase: I like this guy so much and I'm wondering what to do because I hooked up with a guy in front of him. Just poking some fun. I've cheated on an ex in the past, but this one's different...how cheesy am I? haha

lol...I didnt have a desire to have another girl lick me. My ex made out with another chick, thinking I'd like it, but instead it backfired.


But yea, congrats on the no-commital ways. Although, I liked you better when you were in your non-commital slut phase.


ETA: I loved all my freaky XOs back in Gainesville.

[AKA_Monet]

Sweetheart Otter,

Are you serious with this young man? If so, do you want to keep him? If not, please disregard below:

If you have not gotten over your past hurts and pains from old failed relationships, then you will get into a habitual pattern of choosing similar relationships with the "same ole-same ole" men...

So basically if you like the DICK, you keep on coming... Most 'specially if you cain't give up the DICK...

What you need to do is instill your own inner strength and vitality to overcome your past hurts and pains from old failed relationships. You need to complete you somehow, someway...

Now you can go searching forever seeking "enlightenments" allowing "others" to fulfill that need... Or you can find the wherewithall in and of yourself and your soul/spirit or whatever, to give you the power to enrich and be a blessing in your life and others...

I agree with Cashmoney, most men cheat. That percentage is relatively high. But there are a few men that don't. Few and far in between... However, you can push men to cheat also...

I agree with Val on this one, you have a defense mechanism that you've built up to protect yourself. But like James and others have said, it can be used for so long and limit your "expression" of your "light" to other people if you block your own brilliance...

So now what you havta to decide is, what kind of relationship are you prepared to allow into your life?

[OtterXO]

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