Help
I am currently a member of Delta Delta Delta. I have been a member of the sorority for 3 years, but now I'm considering deactivation. One problem is money. I pay my dues, not my parents and its already a big financial responsibility...plus with my busy senior year schedule, I have missed some events and had to pay fines, and the sorority wants us to buy special order shirts and other items for recruitment. Also, I do not feel connected with my sorority. In previous years, I really enjoyed doing things wih my sisters, but I'm living off campus this year and don't get to see them as much as I used to and when I do get a chance to go to social events, I feel like an outsider...and can't wait to leave.
I had so many great times with my sorority sisters. I feel really sad that things have changed...can anyone offer some advice on what I can do to change things...or if any of you have deactivated, how did you feel afterwards?
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