After this i'll chill off the boards for a bit.. BUT

heatherh1981 · #1 05-09-2001, 11:31 AM

Could some one please explain to me and i dont know how to put this in nice words but is it just me.. The cutier the guy is the more of a butthole he is.. Why? I am sorda going toward the verdge of starting to realize that now that i am in college, the more hansome a guy morelikely hes going to be a jerk. I'm not saying all guys are like that. I'm sure there are some really nice hot fellas out there, just not in the state of arkansas.. Like i said i'll shut my trap for a while on these bords..

Peace..
me

sigmagrrl · #2 05-09-2001, 03:49 PM

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Originally posted by heatherh1981:
Could some one please explain to me and i dont know how to put this in nice words but is it just me.. The cutier the guy is the more of a butthole he is.. Why? I am sorda going toward the verdge of starting to realize that now that i am in college, the more hansome a guy morelikely hes going to be a jerk. I'm not saying all guys are like that. I'm sure there are some really nice hot fellas out there, just not in the state of arkansas.. Like i said i'll shut my trap for a while on these bords..

Peace..
me

I know what you mean. The more universally AESTHETICALLY pleasing to the eye a man is, the more he seems to think he is God's gift to women. I think this is because people have TOLD him how cute he is and now he has a swollen melon atop that thick neck! But the ones that are nice are TOLD they are nice from a young age or are raised in an environment that stresses love and friendship over looks and appearance. It is an arguement of nature vs. nuture and feeding an ego! That's my theory.

For example, there is a guy that I just love and he is so hot, but he is an ASS! But there is another guy I think is more beautiful because of his soul and personality! Looks fade, being a dumb ass is forever!

newbie · #3 05-09-2001, 04:13 PM

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Originally posted by sigmagrrl:
Looks fade, being a dumb ass is forever!

HEHEHEHEE, sigmagrrl, that was so funny

. I loved reading that post of yours. Very eloquent and entertaining!

JT1856 · #4 05-09-2001, 04:15 PM

I'll be honest with you gals..I'm a guy and being in a fraternity I have a wide variety of friends...of course the better looking guys are more often then not the A-holes. These guys have more options, with more girls approaching them. They can afford to screw over a girl as long as they know another one will be along soon. I guess that directly corralates with the not so good looking guys being nicer to girls. I see it all the time in my house...girls think they have found this great guy who they would love to go out with..but in reality the guy could care less about her. I'll admit that I've been guilty of this a few times in the past...but a lot of times girls just catch guys at the wrong time...we aren't ready for the relationship but you are...and for most guys the easiest way to get out of a situation like this is to be an asshole...actually coming out and telling you the truth is too complicated for us guys...which I know is sad ladies. As far as dating the not so attractive guys..don't fool yourself...a personality is great..but more often then not looks are the determining factor, especially in college. I'm not saying this is right at all, most of my buddies that aren't the studs are more interesting people who are a little deeper with a more open-minded view on life. My advice for you ladies (which is just an opinion), date attractive men, date unattractive men..but just don't be so quick to think he's a great guy..test him a little bit, play a little hard to get, unless your just looking to play, in that case, get your freak on...

newbie · #5 05-09-2001, 04:22 PM

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Originally posted by JT1856:
My advice for you ladies (which is just an opinion), date attractive men, date unattractive men..but just don't be so quick to think he's a great guy..test him a little bit, play a little hard to get,

Good advice!!

I've been burned before...too naive, I guess.

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newbie · #6 05-09-2001, 04:42 PM

LOL...I just heard on the radio that there was a scientific study done, which proved that unattractive men make better lovers...b/c they have "less chance" at dating opportunities compared to attractive men. Therefore, they make more effort at pampering their girlfriends.

JT1856 · #7 05-09-2001, 05:17 PM

I would probably have to agree with that scientific study