Sweetheart/Little Sister

Sue_XO · #1 07-10-2001, 02:18 PM

Just wondering if any of you were/still are a sweetheart or little sister of a fraternity. We were always so proud of the sisters who were- just wondering if any of my online sisters are?!!

RedHotChiO · #2 07-10-2001, 10:33 PM

I am a KA little sister. I love it!

XO_Princess · #3 07-13-2001, 01:14 PM

I'm a sweetheart/little sister at Sigma Nu

Chiocutie · #4 07-14-2001, 04:32 AM

I'm a Sigma Nu little sister but the only thing I don't like are the "quality" of the other Little Sisters that are also. Lets just say, thank God their not in my chapter.

I know thats bad but it's true. They sleep with all of the guys and their pledges. Yuck. My bf is a SN but we've been together for almost 1 year and a half. I love their chapter, but don't really care for the other little sisters. Do you'll interact with the other little sisters from the fraternity? How is it? I do, and I'm nice and cordial to them, just would rather not be associated with them. As bad as that sounds.

RedHotChiO · #5 07-14-2001, 05:31 PM

We only have a couple of little sisters, and we are a pretty tight-knit group. I know that most of the guys would rather not have girls representing their letters that sleep around, so it's not really an issue.

ChiO480 · #6 07-15-2001, 12:58 AM

I am a little sister for Pi Kappa Phi and I love it! All of the brothers are wonderful!!

XO_Princess · #7 07-24-2001, 05:09 PM

Hey ChiOCutie-
What Sigma Nu chapter are you a Little Sis at? I was made a Sweetheart with a couple of other girls who I was friends with, and we went to lunch sometimes, but outside the fraternity, that was about it. I mean, we would plan stuff for our Little bros and help the guys with rush stuff, but that was about it. We weren't really that close though. Most of us were dating guys in SN.

[This message has been edited by Hootie (edited July 25, 2001).]

AlphaSigLana · #8 07-24-2001, 06:55 PM

I would love to be a sweetheart, but some things have already been passed around about me in 2 fraternity houses so i think my chances of being a sweetheart are nil to zero.

Chiocutie · #9 07-25-2001, 02:53 AM

I'm a little sis for the Sigma Nu's at UH (Zeta Chi Chapter). We're suppose to have a car wash this Saturday but I'm not really excited about it...Little Sisters are raising money for a chapter dinner betweent the guys and us. The Dinner is "free" - yeah right, my time and my effort. Thats not free...:P. Eeek! It's just disgusting...I can just envision it...once they get their pledge class this fall - the other little sisters will be all over those boys...yuck. I just would want to be a little sis with girls that would represent the guys well. And these girls don't! But they're friends with them so O well. I just deal bc it's just a little thing that doesn't take up too much time, and I don't have to deal with them too much, my chapter is what I take pride in. Not them

. I feel bad for saying this stuff but its True

AlphaSigLana · #10 07-25-2001, 07:12 PM

I'm sorry. At least they aren't expecting you to dress up in a string bikini and high heel acting sexy to attract customers to the car wash(at least i hope not). I'm sure that the car wash will be more fun than you think. I am a camp counselor and tomorrow we are having a car wash- imagine trying to get 40 6-11 yr old hyperactive kids to wash cars! It will be us counselors doing the work so i would much rather be at your carwash.

Chiocutie · #11 07-29-2001, 04:40 AM

LOL- I was a camp counselor last summer so I feel your pain! Well I didn't go to it bc it was across town and I didn't really want to. I wanted to sleep in anyways. I feel bad to feel the way I feel but those girls just do not give themselves to be respected. Oh well, to each his own.

AlphaSigLana · #12 07-29-2001, 10:06 AM

Don't feel bad Chiocutie! For people to be respected they need to earn it and treat others the same. I know exactly what kind of girls you are talking about. Last year I noticed a lot of freshman seem to be like that(I was a freshman too). Anyway I met more guys who were virgins than girls. Some of these girls - let's just say plain nasty.
unfortunately for me I had an incident with a guy in a fraternity and I had told my sisters about it at retreat. Well one of my sisters told these guys that I was bragging about it. So anyway these guys thought i was talking stuff then it got said that I was saying crap about their house. One of their guys wanted to get me kicked out of my house bc he said I was ruining relations. Now we are doing homecoming with these guys. I plan on working with them as little as possible. If this means I don't ride the float oh well. I got so mad last spring about this sitaution and the fact that some of my sisters were saying things to them that apparently I said even though they talked crap that i almost deactivated. AHh thank you for letting me vent.

Chiocutie · #13 08-01-2001, 03:35 AM

Don't worry about those guys! You just act cordial and hold your head up high! Don't let those guys ruin Homecoming for you either. I'm on the Homecoming committee at my school and our goal is to make it big and let everyone have tons of fun. So make sure you have fun and enjoy it ~ its a fun part of college. Just ignore those guys if they bother you. Be the bigger person about it. Your sisters need to keep hush about certain things. Sometimes you confide in them and it should stay that way *private*. Sometimes I think freshman act slutty around fraternity houses just to fit in. They don't know that those guys love it...and they look sleazy to the other girls there. Its especially bad if you want to join a house...I know I didn't invite any of those girls to any of our rush events. I won't stoop that low. Anyways, don't deactivate, it'll only get better and they'll be more girls who you can befriend. Just know who you can trust. Feel free to VeNt any time ~Were here for ya~

Sue_XO · #14 08-01-2001, 11:34 AM

Def. do not worry about homecoming- ive learned that during the summer- many things get forgotten and everyone comes back with new attitudes. I remember breaking up with a guy in a fraternity and getting a very nasty threat/call from his "brothers" warning me never to date another XYZ member again. I was so scared the whole fraternity hated me and I was going to lay low! Well, it was not true at all. Two guys out of 75 made that call and the 73 other guys always went out of there way to be nice and kind to me. But, I know how you feel- hold your head up high and enjoy homecoming- it is your event too! Sue

AlphaSigLana · #15 08-01-2001, 10:54 PM

Thanks guys!!! I just hope this turns out to be a good year. i wish we had Chi Omega at my university bc I would love to do mixers etc with your house!!!