BOYS SUCK

Hootie · #1 07-19-2001, 12:37 AM

Okay...those who've already heard my story can just skip all my whining and moaning and post your stories.
I just had to let you all know that wonderful, nice guy I was seeing...dumped me VIA EMAIL.
WHAT A CROCK.
So he tells me that he just wants to be alone and that he is sick of me...thanks...and that he doesn't want a girl friend. Oh, and then he adds, 'Please do not call me all crying and asking me why.'
WTF. All I have to say is that boy has some ego to think I'm gonna call his house crying...or furthermore respond to a pathetic email.
BOYS SUCKS.

#2 07-19-2001, 12:43 AM

Amy,

Any guy who breaks it off

VIA EMAIL

obviously isn't a real man...and what he said to you is typical boy behavior.

WTF

is right. Who is this jerk to assume that you're going to be crying your eyes out. I hope he knows that you're smart enough not to waste your tears on a guy like him.

Hoping you'll have better days ahead!

Hootie · #3 07-20-2001, 11:36 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by OohTeenyWahine:
Amy,

Any guy who breaks it off VIA EMAIL obviously isn't a real man...and what he said to you is typical boy behavior.

WTF is right. Who is this jerk to assume that you're going to be crying your eyes out. I hope he knows that you're smart enough not to waste your tears on a guy like him.

Hoping you'll have better days ahead!

Thank you OTW. I'm doing better. I'm trying to adjust to the not seeing him part. I suppose we live and learn. I'm just glad it wasn't 6 months down the road.

Sue_XO · #4 07-20-2001, 02:20 PM

Amy- I am so sorry that had to happen and in such a childish way! Everyone is going to say "you are better off without him" but it is hard the first month to believe that. You are a beautiful person Amy! He don't deserve ya!! sue

Hootie · #5 07-20-2001, 10:42 PM

Thank you all. I know I can count on you guys to keep me happy when a stupid boy goes and does something like this. Oh well. To make up for it I've had a pretty good week of sales...so that makes me happy.
Love in Chi O-
Hootie

AlphaSigLana · #6 07-20-2001, 11:40 PM

hey when my ex dumped me by email- he said it was because he was having too much fun going out with his friends and get this he wrote," I don't deserve to treat you this way and you don't deserve to be treated this way." Hmm if you are dumping me by email this line is a bunch of bull. I feel you Hootie!

Miami1839 · #7 07-21-2001, 12:04 AM

Hootie, you deserve better than that and that guy is a loser for what he did to you. At least with every bad experience you will grow to be smarter and wiser woman. Any guy would be fool not to realize how wonderful you are.

Kevin

Hootie · #8 07-21-2001, 12:48 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Miami1839:
Hootie, you deserve better than that and that guy is a loser for what he did to you. At least with every bad experience you will grow to be smarter and wiser woman. Any guy would be fool not to realize how wonderful you are.

Kevin

Thanks Kev

happyowl · #9 07-21-2001, 12:51 AM

What a Jerk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Miami1839 · #10 07-21-2001, 09:36 AM

Your welcome Amy

TigerGirl · #11 07-21-2001, 11:30 PM

Hootie,

Sorry to hear about the breakup. That guy was a complete jerk and he obviously doesn't realize that he just lost a wonderful girl. I have to agree with everybody else and say that you deserve so much more. You shouldn't settle for anyone...make him treat you like the PRINCESS you are!!!!! I know how you're feeling right now. Practically all of the relationships I've had since I've been in college have ended very badly (I had the email breakup happen too.) I heard a quote today that totally applies to your situation..."People last, hard times don't." I know you're a very strong woman and you'll be able to pull through this and be an even stronger and more wonderful human being. Hang in there!!!!!!

Allison

cutehootie · #12 07-22-2001, 12:08 AM

Hootie: Am sorry about what happened. You deserve better...we all do. I agree with the selfish jerk, loser, etc. comments completely.

Quote:

Originally posted by AlphaSigLana:
hey when my ex dumped me by email- he said it was because he was having too much fun going out with his friends and get this he wrote," I don't deserve to treat you this way and you don't deserve to be treated this way." Hmm if you are dumping me by email this line is a bunch of bull. I feel you Hootie!

Lana: Ya know, I hate when peeps say "you don't deserve this but...." or "I know I shouldnt say/do this but...." and then do or say what they know they shouldnt. Like, the pre-apology gives them ok to act like a jerk.

Next time somebody prefaces a remark with "I know I shouldnt, but..." remind me to reply: "Yes, you shouldnt and walk away..."

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"Ginger Rogers did everything Fred Astaire did, but she did it moving backwards and in heels."

AlphaSigLana · #13 07-22-2001, 12:26 AM

Men are like pens they work at first and then eventually they run out of ink.

Hootie · #14 07-22-2001, 02:46 AM

Thank you so much Allison and Lana. I like BOTH of those quotes a lot. They really just put me in a better mood.
I've decided that perhaps it's not necessarily HIM that saddens me...but the change. I don't like change very well and it is sometimes overwhelming. I just got off the phone with my best friend and I told her that there is just something missing in my life and I can't quite place my finger on what it is.
I know there are many things I want to change in my life right now, and although I still don't know what it is I'm missing...the fact that I KNOW what I want to change will help me realize what is missing.
For one I want to start exercizing more. As Reese says in Legally Blonde...'Exercizing releases endorfins and make people happy...Happy people just don't kill their husbands.' In other words...I think the stress of life has made me unhappy and moody and if I just get off my butt inbetween work and school and DO SOMETHING, I'll probably feel better and start looking better too. Don't get me wrong...I'm not some lazy, overweight slob. I just know I need to be happy.
Secondly I've realized I want to start going to church more regularly. I really need more spiritual influence in my life. People who communicate with God daily seem to be happier too. I don't know if you will all agree but I just know it's something that I've been meaning to do and just haven't. Now's the time.
So...I've had an epiphany at 1 34 am on a lonely Sunday morning. But it's all good...I feel much better. Now if only GC had spell checker I'd feel 10x's better LOL.
Hootie

AlphaSigLana · #15 07-22-2001, 09:58 AM

I hear you Hootie. I went to the used book store and bought two self-help books: "If I'm so wonderful Why am I Single?" and " Why do I need a man to Survivie?(the title is something close to this) They are both pretty decent books. The first book actually has activities- answering questions she has in a journal.
I don't like change too much either. My summer is pretty depressing- no car, my parents get on my nerves, I swear all I do is clean house bc no one else will, my bf dumped me : I am excited about going back to school- only a month until work week!!! SO I am sure once school starts you will be so busy that you will end up feeling better especially bc you will be around your sisters!