A question for the helpful guys of GC.

[in_the_zone]

I don't really want to get into depth about my issue cos ultimately I know what I need to do to take care of my situation, but I do want to ask the helpful guys of gc their thoughts on the following question:

What advice do you have for girls who just don't seem to know what they want jn terms dating the right man for them and pursuing relationships? You know the girl who is cool and fun as long as things are left on her terms, the girl who plays mindgames to deflect attention from her own insecurity and the girl who focuses too much on the superficial.

I HATE admitting it cos I know I'm gonna get ripped, but I am that girl. I drive men up the wall even if I like them. Even though I've just taken a break from dating, I'm still doing the same garbage and sabotaging potentially decent relationships. Ultimately I just want some guy to truly understand and appreciate me and enjoy my youth with me, but I'm too darn confused about my own self to get that. It makes me angry and I do want to change, but every guy takes my concerns for granted, even tonite's date..so I'm asking for your guys view. Maybe you can share something I haven't thought of. I've worked through this issue so much, but I guess I need to understand the man's pov before I can start to be a better date for guys.