Not invited
O.K. I have a cousin who is getting married next month. The wedding invitations went out & my mother received one as well as one of my older sisters. We found out that my cousin did not want to pay $100 a plate per person so she excluded those she did not there & that included all children, an most of her side of the family including one of her brothers but not the grooms. His family will all be there unless they have kids. We were justifiably insulted and pretty upset that she would choose to do this. My mom already said she would not be attending the wedding but my sister is.
The rest of my family is upset with her for going b/c of the way all the rest of us were insulted & excluded. I feel that it's her right to go if she chooses to do so.
What do you think? Should she go or not?
F.Y.I. The other reason we were excluded was b/c she told us point blank that his well-to-do family is not used to being around people like us. We're not sure what this means but I'm afraid it's a reference to the fact that we're Latino & not white like his family.
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