what qualities attracts u ?

Contact · #1 11-29-2002, 02:53 PM

what qualities actually actracts the opposit sex... ? charisma, charm, looks, feeling...? what do u like in a girl.. innocence?

sororitygirl2 · #2 11-29-2002, 02:59 PM

Intelligence
Sense of Humor
Looks
Morals/Values
Attitude/Ambition/Outlook

Basically, I want it all!

Rio_Kohitsuji · #3 11-29-2002, 03:45 PM

Personality:
twisted humor
shy
sensitive but not to sensitive
has to be manly
caring
intelligent
patient

Physical:
dark hair/dark eyes
nice broad shoulders *drools*
husky

ChiOqt · #4 11-29-2002, 03:56 PM

Intelligence
Goals, Drive, and Determination
A guy who's good to his mother and sisters, and close with the rest of his family
Physical Attractiveness-eyes and hands
How he dances
Sense of humor
Adventureous and Daring
Social Ability
Sensitivity and caring....

damn, that's a lot....maybe that has something to do with why I'm still single!

ZTAngel · #5 11-29-2002, 04:10 PM

Nothing attracts me more than someone with intelligence. Of course, when I first met my current boyfriend, his looks attracted me but it wasn't until one of my sisters said to, "He's majoring in Chemistry and he's pre-med" that I became head over heals.

agger_rob · #6 11-29-2002, 08:04 PM

She must have:
Intelligence
Fun to be around
Gets along with my friends
Attractive
Goals & morals

Added bonus points:
Likes to travel
Close with her family
Likes kids

James · #7 11-29-2002, 08:36 PM

1. Conventionally attractive (my peers would thing she was attractive)

The rest in no particular order:

Intellegent
Clever (they are two different things)
Her own person
Slightly Obsessive
Physically affectionate
Warm
Has special interests

AchtungBaby80 · #8 11-29-2002, 08:59 PM

I like guys with warm hands, light eyes, and a strange sense of humor. And the amazing thing is, I actually found one!

Kevin · #9 11-29-2002, 09:02 PM

I never really settled on a list of things.

I decide I like one thing and change my mind meeting someone else.

So best way to know is when I see attractive I know.

James · #10 11-29-2002, 09:02 PM

LOL good for you, that may be a healthier list than any of ours

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Quote:

Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
I like guys with warm hands, light eyes, and a strange sense of humor. And the amazing thing is, I actually found one!

James · #11 11-29-2002, 09:05 PM

Allow me to add:

Confidence.

There may be nothing more attractive than an intellegent confident good looking female.

Confidence really stands out.

Also let me qualify the looks comment. Basically the way she looks determines whether she is a potential friend or potential romantic interest.

Quote:

Originally posted by James
1. Conventionally attractive (my peers would thing she was attractive)

The rest in no particular order:

Intellegent
Clever (they are two different things)
Her own person
Slightly Obsessive
Physically affectionate
Warm
Has special interests

OUlioness01 · #12 11-29-2002, 09:32 PM

i look for a guy who's:
intelligent
has a good sense of humor/funny
has no problem teasing, but stops when you ask
knows how to laugh
is caring
is compassionate
has self-confidence
is taller than 5'7" (weird, but I want to be the short one by a couple inches)
not completely devoid of looks (i.e. he's not the ugliest person I've ever laid eyes on)
isn't obsessive/doesn't call more than 4-5 times a week, and lets/expects me to call before he calls me a second time

Imthechamp · #13 11-29-2002, 11:39 PM

Ok, in order...

Beautiful Face
Money$$
Nice ass
Nice breasts
Nice Legs
Nice smile
Intelligence

ChiOqt · #14 11-30-2002, 01:32 PM

AchtungBaby80~Do you any ATO's at UK?

ADPi~Ally · #15 11-30-2002, 06:01 PM

I want a guy who is intelligent, caring, sweet, good personality, honest, good sense of humor, trustworthy, have confidence, and have good morals and values.
Yeah it's alot but if you don't look for those qualities, then you get jack shit.