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Is my age gap a problem with my Fraternity?
Hello.
I got a bid to my fraternity the other day and i知 super excited to start pledging. We have around 20 guys in my PC. My frat seems to have a good retainment (not dropping pledges). I learned that in a previous PC, they dropped a few dudes for regular stuff, mostly grades, etc- but one guy was dropped for being 20 dating a 16yr old (ew) i see perfectly clear why that痴 a problem, but now it has me worried. I am 19 dating a 17yr old (we both just had our birthdays) we met when we were both in HS and have been dating for over a year. And i知 not sure if they will see this like a problem just like the other guy and drop me, so i知 really looking for advice from the perspective of other fraternity members and regular college students on if this is a problematic age gap that risks dropping, or if it should be acceptable and fine?
I know the easiest way to get dropped is being weird, and idk how this situation is interpreted and i would just like some viewpoints of this going forward.
Thank you.
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