Why does all the boy problems happen to me?

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hey everyone in greekland!

What an eventful evening for me!!! Why do i have the luck i have? short beginning --- Me meet Boy through firneds, everyone is happy since we hit it off so well. We have been "talking" or dating for three weeks today. i'm leaving to go to out of state for my Brothers wedding today too, but i will have a computer to e-mail on, but that is besides the point. We had plans to go to Dinner, but he had a work dinner, so he called and cancelled that morning, i understood. He told me he would call me later. 10:30 rolls around, not call so i call him, no answer. I had to go to finish running errands so i dropped off the present i got him when my sisters and i went outlet shopping( he collects bears-- so i got him a little beanie one cause it was cute) Now, i know some people think it's too early for gifts, but i'm one of those people who sees something that someone will like i will get it for them. i got two cards for him when i was at the storee and wrote two sweet note, one for when he came home and one for later on in the week when he was lonely. when i get ready to go to bed i call him again to say goodnight like we do if we don't send the night together. he calls me back about an hour later to say thanks and to tell me he was thinking of me and he asked if i could come over to see him b/f i went to bed, so i did. I get there and the Door is locked. call the house his Exgirlfriend answered. She was like Chad is in the bathroom. So i get her to open the Door. He comes out and kisses me on my head and hugs me. he then get sick for drinking too much, the Ex and i both are trying to take care of him, and he passes out. i just leave i have to be up at 6am, but i'm really in the mood to sleep right now. the Ex made a comment about having lunch with his mom and him and their best friend IN FRONT OF ME!!! My sorority sisters already want to kick her @$$, but i have told them to behave.
Cause a week earlier she showed up at a bar that we were at and hung all over him infront of me!! He says it is over b/t them it ended like 8 months ago, but they hang out with some of the same people and go to the same bars.( i can't forget they were Friends with benefits up till three days b/f we met) i really don't go out that much cause of my disorder and when i drink with my meds i get VERYVERY ill, and it is pointless to me to do that. i had to grow out of my party stage early. He also Never wants me to hang out with his friends( i went to high school with some and have never really liked them, cause they were @$$es) We do go out but with friends who know me before and i am friends with.

I just Don't know what to think? i know we are not "offically" together, but we spend either the night together or the day and we talk on the phone several times a day. We tell each other we like each other and stuff. I just don't know what to think about these. i just need some input from some people not in the situation.