Quick Question

[woolworm]

Situation:
I have been looking to pledge and I looked at two fraternities. My fallback fraternity invited me to a social thing tonight via email and used the phrasing the brothers and ABC (random fraternity symbols) "have met you and deemed you a man of good character." So, I assume I got the bid for it.
My top choice fraternity invited me to a brunch last Sunday where they told everyone that bids would be given out on Wednesday. As I left, the president said either, "We hope to see you on Wednesday" or "We will see you on Wednesday." Alluding to the fact that they want me in and the decision has already been made because I have met the majority of the members and we are on a first name basis. I don't know which one because I was hungover as fuck.

Question(s):
Would it be rude to email the Rush Chairman of my top choice fraternity and ask it I got a bid?
What would you guys do?
I don't want to be a nuisance, or come off as rude or anything. I am also asking this because I don't want to go to my second choice fraternity gathering tonight and then get the text/email/whatever to come to my top choice frat's house to pick up the bid and then tell my second choice one that I'm dropping them for another.