Should I stick it out on the advisory board or call it quits?

[totallyjersey]

I've been on the advisory board of a college chapter for nearly three years now. I'm at of a bit of a crossroads and would be interested in hearing your experiences.

Two things have been wearing me down: (#1) the forms and (#2) the general atmosphere..

#1 - I am a member of a NPC sorority (that I love!). Since I was an active member (in the mid 90's), the rules have changed considerably. Today there is much more emphasis on record-keeping and “approvals.” The collegians I advise have to fill out a form for everything – before/after they have any type of chapter event, minutes after every meeting, detailed plans for every chapter meeting nearly a semester in advance, etc. And, as an advisor, it's my responsibility to read and approve these forms, as well as hound the collegians when they're not turned in on time. Frankly, many of the forms are a silly waste of time for the collegians (to prepare) and me (to read/approve). Part of what I loved about my undergraduate experience was that my sorority experience helped me develop my leadership skills. I feel this spoon feeding of rules and processes robs the collegians of that opportunity.

#2 – Without going into too much detail: The college attracts very high achieving students and Greek life plays a rather non-traditional role. They do first semester, freshman year recruitment, within the first few days of the school year. Because they have little exposure to the Greek system (or the college experience, for that matter), I think recruitment tends to draw in women who may like the “prestige” of being in a sorority but have little interest in, or understanding of, a long-term commitment. I don't this is specific to my sorority, but reflective of all the sororities on campus – it's just a very unusual atmosphere. (Note: I admit to some prejudice here. My college had deferred - sophomore year - recruitment. I think there's a lot of value in waiting to rush/pledge.)

I became an advisor because I had such a great one years ago. I've always felt a strong desire to give back.

But, I'm worried I'm getting jaded and my feelings are starting to show.

It can sometimes be difficult to find advisors, especially those who show up to stuff and who want to take an active role. So, I've hung in there.

But, should I continue to stick it out? Or, is it time to take a break?

Has anyone had a similar experience?

As always, your help is much appreciated!