COnfused about what to do??

CJUS · #1 11-01-2001, 01:13 PM

I have a question that I am really confused about, and I am asking for your help. I have this friend who is interested in becoming a member, as well as myself. She knows that the week for the sorority is coming up. She wants me to come along with her and participate. I am not sure if this would be a good idea because I am not on campus and I am not for certain if I will be attending that school. So if you were in my shoes, what would you do?

MF, if this question is not allowed please delete.

AKAtude · #2 11-01-2001, 06:36 PM

Ok, ok. Since I hate to see threads go unaswered, I'll bite.

What do you have to lose (besides your time if you really don't want to be there)? If you really don't want to attend or think being seen with your friend is not a good idea, decline the invitation. If you do accept, then go with your friend and have fun. It doesn't matter if you aren't sure if you will be attending that school in the future or not. If you are interested, then perhaps the sorority sponsored event(s) you attend will give you more perspective.

CJUS · #3 11-02-2001, 10:13 AM

Thanks 4 responding.

I really do want to attend, but I thought the activities were for those on campus. I am in school though. I just didn't want to ruin my chances since I was not on campus, you know. I didn't want nobody thinking why was I there since I was not on campus. But, since it is okay to participate, I think I would attend.