Frat

[Erik P Conard]

well, we certainly have differing opinions on the usage of the
word "frat," So be it.
Language varies, true, but out in the varied scenes we use what
is acceptable.
Some of us judge folks by their language. No matter whether it
be heritage, habit or whatever, we all make judgements.
Shall we move on?

[TSteven]

Originally posted by MysticCat81
Yes, the word "frat" for many people carries an Animal House connotation -- some people use the word intending that connotation to be understood, while others use it quite innocently. I've rarely heard a member of fraternity use it, unless perhaps speaking only with his brothers. But I think it's silly to take offense at the word if no offense is intended.

I agree here with MysticCat81.

However, I would like to add (point out more specifically) that many fraternity men feel that referring to their brotherhood as a "frat" is a sign of disrespect. Regardless if it was not intended as such. And that the inappropriate use of "frat" speaks volumes about the person and may reflect poorly on the organization(s) they represent.

As such, if I may offer a piece of advice. Unless you know FOR A FACT that your use of "frat" will not be considered - either real or perceived - in a negative light, then it is best not to do so.

[preciousjeni]

Originally posted by TSteven
As such, if I may offer a piece of advice. Unless you know FOR A FACT that your use of "frat" will not be considered - either real or perceived - in a negative light, then it is best not to do so.

This is great advice under any circumstances for any word!! I am offended when I hear/see the word "ghey" for example but I wouldn't begin to try to stop anyone from using it. Too often, people don't get why words are offensive or they just don't care.

[GeekyPenguin]

Originally posted by Schmeer
Have you guys been hearing the term "Fratty" lately? It's actually used in DC as a compliment . . . like a nice, cute guy. It's not meant to be offensive at all. And things can be "fratty" too - which means it's a good thing.

Yes as well as fratastic.

ALSO sorority still has two Rs, not just one.

[33girl]

In this case, listen to the message, not the messenger. Erik may not put it across as nicely as he could, but I agree with him. It's not the same as "Philly" or "MIT" - I've never heard of anyone from either of those being upset about the use of those terms.

I've been told by fraternity men at my school (hardly the political correctness haven of the USA) that they find it offensive, so that's reason enough for me never to use it again. Sigma Chis have told me they don't like "Sig Chi" so I don't use that either.

[KSigkid]

Originally posted by 33girl
In this case, listen to the message, not the messenger. Erik may not put it across as nicely as he could, but I agree with him. It's not the same as "Philly" or "MIT" - I've never heard of anyone from either of those being upset about the use of those terms.

I've been told by fraternity men at my school (hardly the political correctness haven of the USA) that they find it offensive, so that's reason enough for me never to use it again. Sigma Chis have told me they don't like "Sig Chi" so I don't use that either.

You're right - some people do find it offensive - when I was undergrad I would get more upset about it too.

However as time has gone on it's not something that bothers me as much...I would never refer to myself as a "frat boy" in a professional setting, for instance, but will sometimes talk about the "frat house" or our undergrad "frat days" with some of my buddies.

I think it really depends on who you are as to your comfort with the phrase.