"What A Phi A Can't Get Enough Of...." - Page 5

tammy- · #61 10-20-2002, 12:11 AM

I had to reply!

I have only dated one greek!

Myyy Alpha man is smart, sexy, patient, god fearing, my best friend and the 2nd most important man in my life ( right after my father).

He is my heart!

DELTAQTE · #62 10-21-2002, 08:15 AM

Omega: A guy that I have known and loved since I was 14 became a Que and I was already a Delta at the time. I thought we would be together, but he had other plans, he REALLY tripped out and thought he had to live up to the image that he thought he had to protray

After that, I'm friends with Ques and I love them like brothers, but that's as far as I'll go.

Kappas: Dated one as soon as I became a Delta, nice and treated me good, and another one from L.A. who thought he was the MACK that could say anything and I believed it, we had good conversations though.

Alphas: Never have but I do love Alpha men.

Sigmas: I will never date a Sigma and can count on one hand how many are my homies. They don't like me and I don't like them.

Iotas: Have a few good friends that are Iotas but none are in my area

GDI's: Dated many

very sweet!

nikki1920 · #63 10-21-2002, 04:15 PM

DELTAQTE: but how do you REALLY feel about Sigmas? ha ha

Alpha: dated one for 5 years. We have a cute lil girl together.

Sigma: dated one for about a year. Still my homie today.

Ques: never had one..no desire to since the opprotunity never presented itself...(MJ had to go and reconcile with Juanita, dang it!)

Iota: engaged to one now.

Best two years of my life, and looking forward to 90+ more...

9dstpm · #64 10-21-2002, 05:50 PM

OK, let's see:

I dated an Alpha for about a minute. Our birthdays are a week apart. We are both Leos and ya'll know that we are some conceited folks. Let's just say that he spent more time in the mirror than I did.

The Que that I dated for about 30 seconds lived up to that dog image b/c while he was dating me, he was engaged to this girl at my church (who ended up an AKA), and was expecting a baby by another girl all at the same time. I still shudder when I think about him.

No Sigmas to speak of.

I dated two Kappas. The first one REALLY lived up to the pretty boy image. He thought he was so fine, so fine that he had at least 5 other girls besides me. I wasn't having it so I bounced him like a bad check. The second one wasn't all that much of a pretty boy but cleans up nicely when given an occasion to do so. He treated me with kindness and respect and wasn't all that intimidated by my intelligence and independence. He was especially supportive on my journey to Delta. That Kappa is my hubby now.

FanCy · #65 10-21-2002, 07:34 PM

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay back in the day, I was week for a Kappa man......goooooodness gracious....
Lawd, that was back in 93 (ish)

Swamp Thang · #66 10-21-2002, 08:36 PM

"Onnnne QUE can maaake.. oneeeee Woman HATE all QUEEEEEES"

This is a good subject just for us to share our experiences.

The only thing I'll say on this subject is that I'd hope we all would see that your Fraternal/Sorority affiliation has no bearing on your personal relationships.

as for my record:

My high school sweetheart went AKA and we almost got engaged but she undermined the trust in our relationship and I had to break it off.

A good friend of mine whose older sister is a AKA surprised everybody and went SGRho. We've been friends and have 'shared' with each other for 6+ years but have just enough differences where we've never given a relationship a shot.

I've been with one Zeta in my life.. She was a straight amazon and beautiful on the inside and out.. but, she left the area to further her career and the Long Distance thing is not for us.

I've had the great fortune of dating 4 DeviStaTing ladies of DST. For different subtile reasons, neither relationship lasted more than 2 years but all were great. Now, I JUST ATTENDED DELTA NATIONALS IN ATL THIS SUMMER.

*this is the main point I want to make*

JUST BECAUSE I HAVEN'T HAD THE RELATIONSHIPS WITH THE DELTAS lead TO MATRIMONY... and even if one didn't end on good terms..., I WOULD NEVER *EVA - EVA - EVA - EVA* "X" an entire group of dynamic, educated Women such as the : AKAs, Deltas, Zetas, SGRhos.. because on ONE or TWO or ETC bad experiences with said group of Sorors..

I'm not HAAAAARDLY trying to eliminate a group of over 100,000 highly educated Black Women from my dating pool... And I would suggest that no Black Woman eliminate and group of highly educated, driven, charming, hard body Men such as Omega Psi Phi because of a painful relationship experience in the past.

don't fugg up and lose the love of your life.

BabyBlue91 · #67 10-22-2002, 11:37 AM

I dated someone in college who told me he was a frat member, but mysteriously lost the fraternity key chain I bought him, lost/destroyed my film with him doing the frat hand signals, and wouldn't let me meet any of his brothers.

It finally dawned on me (after many other lies unraveled) that he wasn't a member of any frat. (Guys, I won't name the frat in this post. Unfortunately I don't have an address for you all to break the door down and crack this dude up for perpin'. Obviously it wasn't Sigma -- he would have been busted pretty quick.)

beauty_6049 · #68 10-22-2002, 07:43 PM

I have been dating a Kappa for almost a year and he has been one of the most patient, ande aceepting males that I have encountered. Most of my friends say to stay away from "those kappas" but my baby treats me like a queen! And he keeps my head "IN THE CLOUDS"!!

SweetestDiva · #69 10-22-2002, 10:34 PM

I dated an Alpha VERY briefly. Turned out he was also dating a soror who had graduated 2 years before I got here... obviously that didn't work out.

Also had a relatively brief relationship with a Kappa. Intelligent, respectful and that shimmy just did something to me... but we quickly discovered we argued much less as friends.

My boyfriend now (and longest relationship to date) is a Sigma. He is handsome, sweet, loyal, respectful, intelligent, thoughtful, caring... you get the point. Maybe one day I'll try to scan a pic of the Skee-Blue paddle we made.

DELTAQTE · #70 10-23-2002, 06:17 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by nikki1920
DELTAQTE: but how do you REALLY feel about Sigmas? ha ha

Lone Dog · #71 10-23-2002, 08:13 AM

Thought I'd join my DAWG up in here and post another male perspective of this pretty interesting topic:

Zetas: Dated one .... let me take that back ... met one ... hung out with her, "got to know her," .... lost contact with her ..... (how convenient)

AKAs: High school sweetheart turned out to be an AKA: we broke up before she crossed (she broke my heart ya'll). But a few years later, we gave it another go (she was an AKA by then). The second go-round lasted all of 48 hours and really was Sex Fest '98. Fin. I left her with this phrase from Louis XIV "Apres moi, le deluge!" ........ I have dated about 3 other AKAs over the course of time and they were all beautiful, sensual, intelligent......and temporary.

Deltas: I've dated three Deltas:
Red #1: Nice but stubborn, caring but moody ..... it never really had a chance, we were killing that "in-between" time.
Red #2: Pretty, smart, compassionate, giving, Long Distance relationship, mind-blowing "relations", ..... lies and deceit.....on both our parts.
Red #3: Just broke up with her man, new in town, we vibed to Badu together somethin' serious. After a good friendship had been established through time, we both moved away from the city in the same week for career purposes .... the night before I left town, we got hot and sweaty. Game over.

SGRhos: Met one; hooked up with her; flew her to Cali for the weekend; fell in love with her mind, body, and soul; dated her for a year; moved her to Cali with me for good; married her; became a parent with her; and will be OWT with her from now until the sun sets on my spirit.

GDIs: Lawd, lawd ... where do I begin?

And let me be the first to tell you, Que DAWGS ain't doing all the doggin in the NPHC...... '08, '13, '20, and '22 have all represented in the playa arena....I have seen it, and been subjected to it. But it's all good......that's what life is about...livin' and learnin' what you want and don't want in a mate.....I like to call it taste testing.

But no matter what, a big ROOOOOOO to every Edna out there. Frank will ALWAYS love ya'll

ROOO

Sexy Mocha · #72 10-23-2002, 10:07 AM

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Originally posted by Lone Dog
I left her with this phrase from Louis XIV "Apres moi, le deluge!" ........

I know I can't be the only one that doesn't know what this phrase means....Lone Dog, can you interpret for me?

ClassyLady · #73 10-23-2002, 10:24 AM

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Originally posted by Sexy Mocha

I know I can't be the only one that doesn't know what this phrase means....Lone Dog, can you interpret for me?

It means "After me, the deluge." Louis thought that France was going to go to hell in a handbasket after his reign.

Lone Dog · #74 10-23-2002, 11:00 AM

ClassyLady.... you're real close.....

"Apres Moi, le Deluge" is French for "After me, the Flood!!"

He was referencing THE FLOOD.....like the 40 days, 40 nights flood that Noah faced in the Bible. The same flood that wiped out the entire earth and its population.

Like ClassyLady said, he was trying to communicate to his kingdom that after he left the throne there would be nothing left to look forward to but problems and that France would be overwhelmed without him to lead them....they might as well cease to exist.

Now of course, that's not what I said to her.... but that's how I was feeling. A little cocky of me to think that...but ya'll know how you're feeling when a relationship ends. We all feel like " I was the best she ever had! She ain't neva gonna find another like me!" Heh heh

Anyway....I digress.....where was I?
Oh yeah, I remember now .... ROOOOO

Sexy Mocha · #75 10-23-2002, 12:02 PM

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Originally posted by Lone Dog
A little cocky of me to think that...

Yeah Lone Dog...just a LITTLE cocky...

But I know where you're coming from when it comes to breakups...Most people do feel this way (maybe not to the obnoxious level you took it) ...but I'm feeling you nonetheless