revenge/defending your honor

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by norcalchick
I like karma. Especially when there's an ex-bf who wants to get back with you and regrets the way he treated you. And he knows that he can't get you back because you know better now and because you now have a great bf that's a thousand times better than the ex. It's nice knowing that you were the best gf he ever had.

LMAO.....you're the reason why I never chase any of my exes.

[norcalchick]

Originally posted by cashmoney
LMAO.....you're the reason why I never chase any of my exes.

lol. where you an asshole ex-boyfriend?

you don't want the girls to have the satisfaction of knowing that she was the best. hehe

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by norcalchick
lol. where you an asshole ex-boyfriend?

you don't want the girls to have the satisfaction of knowing that she was the best. hehe

lol Nooooo, not because some of them were the best...its because I don't want them thinking they were the best. See, in the case of my exes, after a breakup the girls always thought they were the best thing that ever happened to me....but they were wrong in each case. I think chicks tend to put that in their mind to help get over the guy and then when the guy does have a sudden urge for some familiar pussy and calls the girl.....it then solidifies her thought that she was the best and usually she'll bang one. last. time. before never talking to the guy again.



But yea, I wouldn't give them the satisfaction of anything for shit. In some cases I was the asshole ex-boyfriend.

[OtterXO]

Originally posted by cashmoney
I think chicks tend to put that in their mind to help get over the guy and then when the guy does have a sudden urge for some familiar pussy and calls the girl.....it then solidifies her thought that she was the best and usually she'll bang one. last. time. before never talking to the guy again.

haha...I find a more effective method is to be friendly to the ex on the phone but when it comes to them asking to hang out I completely deny them. Then I never talk to them again...and it's solidified in their mind that they were denied...

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by OtterXO
haha...I find a more effective method is to be friendly to the ex on the phone but when it comes to them asking to hang out I completely deny them. Then I never talk to them again...and it's solidified in their mind that they were denied...

You're evil.

[gphi2k2]

I have prided on myself on following the 'living well is the best revenge' path.

And I'm living great. And I'm happy. In the best shape of my life, have a good job, great bf, great apartment in a great part of town....

Yet I still want to be driving the Mack Truck that hits my ex.

Which leads me to believe that perhaps there is something to be said for taking the 'ole idea that one should pride themselves on being the better person and not stoop to the low levels exemplified by the low low character of a crappy ex, and throwing it out the door.

Does letting someone get away with being a worldclass *enter explative here* make you the better person, or a chump?

[OtterXO]

Originally posted by cashmoney
You're evil.

I know, but it's kind of hot isn't it?

[AchtungBaby80]

The trouble with karma is that, contrary to popular belief, it doesn't catch up with you until your next life.

But anyway, back to the original question...I got the best satisfaction the other night at the expense of a jacka** who did something pretty crummy to me a while back. I was at a party talking to my friend, and he comes waltzing up like nothing ever happened making a stupid comment, and I just took a dainty swig of my drink and said, "F*** you."

The look on the jerk's face was priceless.

[PhoenixAzul]

no personal revenge stories...but I just feel wildly vindicated by coming back home to see all the "popular" and "pretty" girls from high school fat, pregnant, and dropped out of community college or still working at McDonalds. I know it's stupid and high schoolish, but damn it feels good to say that I'm actually doing stuff with my life

[bluefish81]

I don't really know that it's revenge but I still find this amusing. I broke up with my college boyfriend a week before we graduated because he was cheating on me. I never really saw him until this summer. I was heading to CO for a weekend trip and was flying out and going thru airport security when I looked up and guess who was screening bags. So while I'm going on vacation, he was the one standing there checking my bags.
And then he stopped me and started talking to me. He decided that it was necessary to tell me how much money he was making at this job. (Which I thought was pretty tacky.) I guess he thought that I would be impressed or something. Instead I just smiled, did some quick math in my head and realized that I was making a lot more money than him. So, I'm going to have to say that I agree that 'living well is the best revenge.'

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by OtterXO
I know, but it's kind of hot isn't it?

Definitely

[astroAPhi]

I had fun at a wedding recently. My most hated ex sent me a nasty letter to break up with me, and said some of the most horrible things anyone has ever said to me. He sent it while I was on vacation too. Luckily I had decided over vacation that he was worthless, but didn't want to even waste the money on a long-distance phone call to dump him.

My ex was at a wedding of a mutual friend who he has tried to get with FOREVER. We hadn't seen each other since the break up 5 years ago, so I didn't even bother speaking to him. Instead, I had a great time with the few people that I knew there. I looked good, was having fun, and he knew it. He was there by himself, had just gotten dumped by his fiancee, and had to hear from others about how I had a great job, boyfriend, and life.

He ended up leaving because he was having such a miserable time watching me have a good time.

[aephi alum]

astroAPhi, that reminds me of a way I got "revenge" on a particular ex-boyfriend - let's call him Steve. One of my sorority sisters was getting married, and she invited me, my then-boyfriend (now husband), and Steve. She considers all three of us to be among her friends. Steve had dumped me a few months earlier (by IM ) so I was not looking forward to seeing him at the wedding. But I enjoyed the wedding and had a blast at the reception with my bf and our other friends. Steve hadn't met someone new, so he was there alone, and was absolutely miserable watching me have fun with my new man. He left early.

I'm so evil sometimes

[Honeykiss1974]

Originally posted by aephi alum
astroAPhi, that reminds me of a way I got "revenge" on a particular ex-boyfriend - let's call him Steve. One of my sorority sisters was getting married, and she invited me, my then-boyfriend (now husband), and Steve. She considers all three of us to be among her friends. Steve had dumped me a few months earlier (by IM ) so I was not looking forward to seeing him at the wedding. But I enjoyed the wedding and had a blast at the reception with my bf and our other friends. Steve hadn't met someone new, so he was there alone, and was absolutely miserable watching me have fun with my new man. He left early.

I'm so evil sometimes

What a spineless, cowardly jerk! Dumping someone over IM!?! Good grief!

Kudos to you! Happiness is ALWAYS the best revenge.

[kddani]

Originally posted by PhoenixAzul
no personal revenge stories...but I just feel wildly vindicated by coming back home to see all the "popular" and "pretty" girls from high school fat, pregnant, and dropped out of community college or still working at McDonalds. I know it's stupid and high schoolish, but damn it feels good to say that I'm actually doing stuff with my life

lol, had this very same experience on Saturday after being waited on at Eat 'n Park by a girl I went to HS with. I kinda felt bad, Eat 'n Park has got to be a crummy place to waitress!