Grow up, LOSER!!! - Page 5

Thrillhouse · #61 03-04-2002, 11:51 AM

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Originally posted by h2oot

Also, the fact that this thread got argumentative, is precisely why it should have been aired in the first place.

Why? To deviate far from the point after awhile?

The point of this is the fact that stuff like this shouldn't be happening. Then again, emailing the admin would have went a long way as well

xo_sue · #62 03-04-2002, 02:00 PM

I liked how Erika told us her boundaries. If we all our going to post our pictures on a thread, tell what we do for a living on another thread, our birthday is listed at the bottom of the page, and now we are meeting each other in public... we should also share with each other what is/is not acceptable when it comes to dating/flirting with G.C'ers.

I know one boundary I like having is with the AOL buddy list. I love having one- I love being on other people's buddy list but everytime I log on to AOL- give me 5 - 10 minutes to take a deep breath, read my mail, look at the bright colors before you bombard me with instant messages. I hope I don't sound like a rude East Coaster but has anyone else had someone in their past instant message them EVERY SINGLE TIME they logged on???? I'm glad you want to know how my day is going but do you need to ask me 5 times a day?

SAEguy · #63 03-04-2002, 02:21 PM

Ok it took me awhile due to class, but I can now defend my position! The comment about the random bum, was this: Anyone at any time in a society as social as ours can ask or say something that will offend us. It's just something you have to deal with. You saying its virtually impossible, I have a friend who waitresses and an old guy asked her if she like to sit on his face so how impossible is it? And finally how dare you lump this A$$hole on me and guys in general, here's on for you. Last night I got my heart ripped out by a girl who wants to just be friends but likes to lead guys on, does that make you a b*tch? Should I now yell at every girl I see on campus due to the actions of one girl....no. I agree that what was said to you, was horribly lacking in taste, but dont freak out on everybody just realize there are freaks like that out in the world! And the 6uldv8 = sexual deviant, somebody probably said that already but oh well...

ErikaXO · #64 03-04-2002, 04:27 PM

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Originally posted by SAEguy
Ok it took me awhile due to class, but I can now defend my position! The comment about the random bum, was this: Anyone at any time in a society as social as ours can ask or say something that will offend us. It's just something you have to deal with. You saying its virtually impossible, I have a friend who waitresses and an old guy asked her if she like to sit on his face so how impossible is it? And finally how dare you lump this A$$hole on me and guys in general, here's on for you. Last night I got my heart ripped out by a girl who wants to just be friends but likes to lead guys on, does that make you a b*tch? Should I now yell at every girl I see on campus due to the actions of one girl....no. I agree that what was said to you, was horribly lacking in taste, but dont freak out on everybody just realize there are freaks like that out in the world! And the 6uldv8 = sexual deviant, somebody probably said that already but oh well...

Ok SAEguy.....first off I'm sorry for what happened to you with the girl....it happens to everyone at one time or another and yeah, maybe this girl is a b*tch. Maybe she is a player and likes to mess with guys, and maybe there are a lot of others out there like her, in which case it would be appropriate to refer to them as a group. My point being, this is what Hurlygurly was trying to do----refer to the freaky guys as a group, not ALL guys. But that point is moot now, anyway....perhaps it was worded poorly and that is why non of the guys seems to understand that it wasn't aimed at all of you. At this point it hardly matters.

I think after 30 years I do realize that there are freaks out there in the world. But does that mean that I should just grin and bear it? I think not. That's like saying "you know there are rapists and murderers in the world, deal with it." I'm not trying to kick on you SAEguy, but you are relatively new to the threads and there is a lot that you have missed....there are a number of women on here who just don't feel comfortable anymore because of other things that have happened; I think many of us worry that any one of these unidentified renegade GCers might be one of our "friends" from the past resurfacing.

For what it's worth, SAEguy, I'm sure that your girlfriend wasn't a b*tch.....maybe she just didn't know what she wanted, which is an unfortunate but common affliction among the young college population. You will most certainly find another, I promise!!!!!!!

xo_sue · #65 03-04-2002, 04:56 PM

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Originally posted by SAEguy
Last night I got my heart ripped out by a girl who wants to just be friends but likes to lead guys on, does that make you a b*tch?

SAE-
I know this is off the original topic but I know you have been having a hard time with some girls. I remember the thread http://greekchat.com/gcforums/showth...threadid=15325

where your ex-girlfriend just wanted to be friends with you and you want more and now this girl from last night wants to be friends but leads you on.

I can see in your post that you are angry and you have every right to be... two girls in two months leading you on. My point is that I hope you can see what is going on here with GC objectively and not let these two women influence you and make you think all women lead men on.

SAEguy · #66 03-04-2002, 05:52 PM

I'm not pissed but if you hadn't cut my quote off, then you would have seen where I typed no. I'm not angry about it, I'm angry that people on here act like the things other do are my responsibility or the responsibilities of the guys on here I will rpovide the quote in a sec.

SAEguy · #67 03-04-2002, 05:55 PM

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If you guys want the ladies to stay here, then you'd better find a way to straighten this situation out

SAEguy · #68 03-04-2002, 05:57 PM

sorry one last post, there is a difference between offending someone and raping someone....

h2oot · #69 03-04-2002, 06:16 PM

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Originally posted by SAEguy
sorry one last post, there is a difference between offending someone and raping someone....

No Duhhhhhh!!! There are those who would take exception to the Gettysburg address because Lincoln didn't wear an undershirt that day or misspelled a word.

I think we are getting into a guy/gal thing. Ya know, where the woman wants to be heard and get her feelings out and the guy is picking apart the syntax, or digressing on her choice of an analogy.

SAEGuy, learn something here. I DONT care if a word is mispelled, I DONT care if the analogy is overstated...I DO care if you HEAR me, I do care if you GET the message. All I want is for YOU to act somewhat sympathetic, and nod your head once or twice....Geeze.

ps: I didn't say this to be spiteful of mean spirited. I think you really don't know what we want.

#70 03-05-2002, 12:12 AM

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Originally posted by KABillyMac
(cracking knuckles)

(Insert slightly ungentlemanly comment here)

There are some females on GC that I find attractive, and I would like to go a couple rounds in the sack with if I were passing through your town. I really hope this tick turd hasnt hurt my chances of that. Sorry ladies, just keepin it real.

Thank you Billy for adding some humor to this thread. I'm sorry, but this post has to be the most worthwhile one I've read all day.

I think this thread is total confirmation of last night's chat discussion.

DGPhoney · #71 03-05-2002, 12:34 AM

wow what a commotion! Well as always I have to drop my two cents on the matter. Well kids(no pun intended) it is the internet, there are tons and tons of creeps a like all over our little lovely Cyberspace community. although Hurleygirl, I am truly sorry for such a distatseful pm that was sent to you or your sister, but it does happen, especially here on the internet.
Although, I don' t think all this commotion/drama should be dropped on SOME (not all as we have seen) of the great guys here on GC. Although they may have their faults (sorry guys, u know what I mean) they are still some pretty great people.
I also think in the future we all know such things go on, there are things u can do blocking the address, the screename, and so forth, alerting the moderator for that forum or really any moderator. As well as the big kahuna John.
But thats just my two cents, hope all is well for everyone

DGP~Honey~

TriDeltaGal · #72 03-05-2002, 12:45 AM

Did anyone else notice the pyscho is back a.k.a Bridget3D? I don't know maybe it just makes me so mad because she claimed to be a TriDelt...
I shouldn't have said anything, IT feeds on attention.

Anyway, back to the issue at hand...

SAEguy · #73 03-05-2002, 06:49 AM

H200t, I do understand that you want a head nod and show of support so first off here it is. I think that the pm sent was in no way right, it was gross, vulgar and in complete lack of taste, she should never have had to read it. No here's where you extend your hand and we meet in the middle, as bad as that pm was, when you are online you know that you open yourself up to such things. Like I told DGPhoney through pm, if I didnt want comments on here I wouldnt have posted. By simply being here you invite some losers to do this stuff, I agree you should notify a moderator and block the name/address. But also dont throw this on all the guys, yes we all have our faults lots of them, does it mean we are responsible for every lunatic freak on GC just because we are guys? I really hope someone can grasp my point I'm not agreeing with the wierdo I'm just saying I cant stop every wierdo from making stupid comments.....

h2oot · #74 03-05-2002, 10:43 AM

Thanks.

Tom Earp · #75 03-05-2002, 06:31 PM

SAEguy, just PM you get back with me if can!

Good post by the by!