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Old 05-20-2013, 05:37 PM
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Lifting up all of the people affected by the tornado outbreak yesterday and today. Heartbreaking damage.
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Old 05-21-2013, 08:40 PM
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Much love to you and yours, aephi alum. Wish I could do more than keep you all close in my thoughts.
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Old 05-22-2013, 10:41 PM
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My family and I appreciate all the prayers.

Unfortunately, it looks like Mum is terminal. Dad signed a DNR order today, and we're going to the funeral home tomorrow to make preliminary arrangements. He asked me to pick out a burial dress. Her vitals look good, but that's because of the drugs. Her kidneys are shutting down.

Yesterday, while we were visiting, she woke up very briefly. I took her hand and squeezed, and she squeezed my hand back.

My father has been crying, and he does.not.cry.

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Old 05-28-2013, 01:23 AM
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More sad news: My mother lost her fight with cancer late last night.

When my husband and I got the call, we all but flew down to the hospital (good thing the cops weren't out looking for speeders!) to say goodbye to her before she was taken to the morgue. Then we had the unenviable task of picking out a burial dress and some photos to display at the wake. And once she is buried, I will come home and sit shiva.

My father is a wreck. He is not the type of man who cries, but he's been crying over his wife's death ... a lot. He's known her for over 50 years. We met today with the priest who will be conducting her funeral Mass, and he could barely hold himself together. He couldn't even remember the date they were married - I had to supply it.

She was such a wonderful, remarkable woman, and I miss her so much
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Old 05-28-2013, 01:38 AM
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I'm so sorry, you and your family are in my thoughts. Strength to all of you.
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Old 05-28-2013, 07:01 AM
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I am so sorry, aephi alum.

Praying for peace and comfort for your family, especially your father.
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Old 05-28-2013, 07:36 AM
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I am so sorry, aephi alum. May your mother rest in peace, and may all of you who loved her and will miss her, especially your father, find peace and comfort.
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Old 05-28-2013, 12:48 PM
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I'm so sorry aephi_alum Many thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
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Old 05-28-2013, 01:56 PM
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Aephi_alum you are in my thoughts and prayers...
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Old 05-28-2013, 02:11 PM
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aephi_alum you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old 05-28-2013, 03:24 PM
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I'm truly sorry to hear this, aephi_alum. You and your family are in thoughts and prayers.
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Old 05-28-2013, 04:01 PM
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I'm so sorry aephi alum.You and your family are in my prayers.
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Old 05-28-2013, 08:40 PM
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Love to you and your husband, your father and all of your loved ones now. May your mother rest in peace.
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Old 05-28-2013, 10:45 PM
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Thank you all.
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Old 05-28-2013, 11:26 PM
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I am so sorry to hear about your mother, aephi alum. May she rest in eternal peace, may your father find that peace which surpasses all understanding, and may your mourning eventually turn into joy.
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