Please Help Me

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

Thats not the only typo I saw, but I was going to give you the benefit of the doubt about "stoopidology", the other words were basic computer slang, not really grammatical errors. But again with the elementary comebacks "it was a joke... just like you are" COME ON you gotta do better than that... If you're really tryna make this thing personal, we can take it there... I've been trying to keep all of my posts civilized, but you're really trying to get crazy OVER THE INTERNET lol... People like you are really funny

It's great that you realized the difference between "you're" and "your" in this post. You rock.

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

I feel like y'all are trying to turn me away from it. So you crossed, congratulations. Does that make you better than somebody? Shouldn't you be encouraging someone aspiring to take the same journey you did to go through with it so that you could end up working together for the same cause? Maybe i'm wrong, but that's what I understood the meaning of Fraternity to be; an organization of men working together towards a common cause.

First some effective communications lessons: DO NOT "SHOULD" ON ME--it causes you to sound/be read as aggressive...

Secondly, since some organizations already have surpassed their centennials and others are preparing to celebrate theirs, what convincing does ANYONE have to do to obtain members given our respective histories over a century...

Maybe schooling as to how to become a member as allowed by the International Headquarters as agreed may be needed and everyone in the D9 is interested in that possibility--i.e. "Meet the Greeks". But you have to understand that our lawyers restrict how we want to display our information.

Just as much as one can become a member of these kinds of organization, it is easier for expulsion these days. And folks just cannot afford higher dues and/or risk their gemstones for stupidity.

I have the contact information of a wonderful Kappa man who would love to tell you everything you might want to know!!!

Good luck on your endeavors.

[PerfectVerse06]

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

Yes, what you did was GET CRAZY... If you would have just done what you just said, "simply respond to me by saying that YOU (NPHC) DO NOT tell intake information over the internet," we would not have problems right now... But you decided to be a b!@c# and give smart replies. Whats the problem? Your boyfriend not treating you right? Oh no thats it, you dont have a boyfriend, so talking crazy to random people over the internet gets you wet. For real, if you're not getting enough good sex, send me a PM with you're name, number, and a pic, I got what you need... hahaha

I guess this is what you meant by keeping things 'civilized'.

[DSTCHAOS]

If that "pushed" you then you don't have enough patience to do a lot in life, not to mention pursue a fraternity.

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

I tried, I really did. But she HAD to keep pushing me lol...

Help me understand: You LET something said to you by an avowed young lady triggering to push you to violent verbal abuse and attacks? Is that a manly response?

To whom the gods wish to destroy... They must first make them angry...

[1908Revelations]

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

Yes, what you did was GET CRAZY... If you would have just done what you just said, "simply respond to me by saying that YOU (NPHC) DO NOT tell intake information over the internet," we would not have problems right now... But you decided to be a b!@c# and give smart replies. Whats the problem? Your boyfriend not treating you right? Oh no thats it, you dont have a boyfriend, so talking crazy to random people over the internet gets you wet. For real, if you're not getting enough good sex, send me a PM with you're name, number, and a pic, I got what you need... hahaha

LMAO.....Oh...I am going to cry because I am looking for advice over the internet. Boo hoo.

Originally Posted by PerfectVerse06

I guess this is what you meant by keeping things 'civilized'.

Right Soror....right.

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

If that "pushed" you then you don't have enough patience to do a lot in life, not to mention pursue a fraternity.

Takes a bow to Chaos.

Some people are......extra.

[1908Revelations]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Help me understand: You LET something said to you by an avowed young lady triggering to push you to violent verbal abuse and attacks? Is that a manly response?

To whom the gods wish to destroy... They must first make them angry...

Maybe he needs an eval. IDK?

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by 1908Revelations

Takes a bow to Chaos.

Some people are......extra.

If he wanted to be extra for the sake of entertainment, that's his business. Happens everyday.

But to claim that he actually felt moved any particular way is simple.

[PrettyBoy]

Damn. A joker leaves town for the holiday weekend and comes back to this mess.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by 1908Revelations

Oh BTW....HEY PB!!

Hey there lady. How ya been?

[1908Revelations]

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

I handled myself how I felt was appropriate at the time, but do not pass judgments about me, y'all really don't even know me..

You do not know me either, yet you made comments about me as if you did. It dosen't bother me that you responded the way you did; as to me you are only a screen name. I actually laughed that you would take it there and say 'pushed'.

THe comments I made were about how interest (not just you) ask about intake on GC A WHOLE LOT. I guess most think the internet is anonymous, but it is not.

Que Sera, Sera

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

Y'all are all really funny... I love how everyone ALWAYS finds a way to dissect what I say to find the smallest thing that can be portrayed as negative... "Push" is a figure of speech, at least to me it is. When I say "I was pushed," I mean that I was being antagonized, and in this situation, it seemed like she was making jokes and trying to be funny with some of her comebacks... so I retaliated the same way... but, I have a different type of humor... "If that 'pushed' me I don't have enough patience to do a lot in life, not to mention pursue a fraternity"?!?!?! are you serious??? What do you know me from, maybe 13 posts on this website? I ask a question, make a couple comments and a joke and now you have the audacity to think you have the knowledge to judge me??? 4real man, a lot of yall are real condescending and see yourselves extremely high and mighty because you have letters, at least that's what it seems like to me.. I know and highly respect many of the things that you and you're individual organizations do, but none of that makes you a better person than me, or gives you the right to judge me. 1908Revelations I refuse to even respond to you anymore, I haven't heard some of your childish replies since like the 6th grade, and I'm not even gonna deal with them anymore... OK, maybe what I said was a little out of line and there were many other ways that I could have handled the situation... I handled myself how I felt was appropriate at the time, but do not pass judgments about me, y'all really don't even know me..

How come you feel you are being judged?

Isn't the general NPHC expectation for anyone interested to do their research of his/her desired organization...

The feeling of being judged is usually a manifestation that you need to be more compassionate...

[Little32]

I just find it funny how folks claiming to be in highschool come here, asking for advice, and then try to jump bad at folks who not only have the letters they covet but also the degrees they are trying to earn.

Look here youngin--if indeed you are a youth, I am not quite sold on that fact--you don't need to respond to everything that people post. Sometimes it is good to sit back, observe, and absorb. Lots of times, folks are telling you exactly what you need to know, even if it is not exactly what you want to hear; and sometimes you miss it because you think that you need to respond tit for tat--to what, prove your e-manhood.

Had you taken the suggested course of action, you would have discovered that the question that you asked had already been asked and answered on this board many times over. Moreover, you might not have alienated the folks on this board who might have been willing to help you--had your approach been different.

I am not even going to address the insults and attempted checkings that you have doled out. The fact of the matter is that we are in a position that you want to be in. We have attained membership in our desired organizations; more than that, most of us have graduated from college, and many have advanced degrees. We have information that you desire; so you need to act accordingly when requesting that information(i. e. reading the T.O.S. at the top of every board, following those rules, and using discretion and humility in broaching the subject of your membership pursuit.) Otherwise, don't feign indignation when you get clowned.

[Little32]

Do you think that this is the last time that you might feel judged during your pursuit? Really?

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

And I most definately was being judged. According you y'all I'm impatient, unable to pursue a fraternity, and in need of a mental evaluation... Last time I checked, those were judgments... Let me know if I'm wrong...

But anyway, thank you again to everyone who helped me, but I was introduced today to a distant uncle of mine today who is the Polemarch of the Province that the Chapter that I am interested in is located, and he will provide me with the rest of the information (and recommendation) that I need...

I am glad you met your "distant uncle." How convenient it is that he is polemarch of the chapter's province; guess that means you are a shoe-in.

[Little32]

Yeah, ok, good. Hope the road to Kappa is a smooth as you seem to think it should be.

No, I really don't.