I knew it was over when.... - Page 4

tickledpink · #46 12-28-2000, 05:04 AM

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Originally posted by novella000:
I KNEW IT WAS OVER WHEN...
I was over his house and my company-furnished cell phone became the subject for an argument. He looked in my phone and started calling numbers (of co-workers) accusing me of cheating with these people.
He made me strip, stand in his garage naked (it was cold as hell outside too) while he repeated obscenities to me. He held a gun in plain view, and doused the crotch of my pants with Listerine. He didn't give me my underwear back so when I did get my clothes back on (I only got my pants b/c he tore my shirt, glasses, and underwear up) things weren't so comfortable for me down there. We fought over my car keys b/c he insisted on driving "the whore" (as I was called) home. He wanted to drive me home persoanlly so that I wouldn't go over my "other man's" house and tell him what had just happened to me...
It might've been nice if I'd had another man to call... so he could beat my ex's a%%!
Needless to say - I did not have any misty-fuzzy-sweet-candy-coated-memories of my ex this Christmas.
Ohhh drama. Never again.

Whoaaaa! Now, that tops quite a few of these. After I got over the fear, I don't know how I would've reacted to that one.

naturalbeauty08 · #47 12-29-2000, 05:07 PM

I knew it was over when we didn't care whether we spoke or not.
I based our relationship on the Toni Braxton Song... Seven Whole Days... when seven days went by... I knew it was over.

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...Taking control of my beauty... loving me for me...

1savvydiva · #48 11-05-2002, 10:00 PM

I knew it was over when...I asked him face to face if he was cheating and I knew for a FACT that he was...and he lied so well, that I started questioning whether or not I had heard the girl right!!!

Damn when you can lie that good, it's scary!

zetafg · #49 11-06-2002, 10:36 AM

I knew it was over when over the X-mas holiday season my inner spirit told me he was getting married and got an ex-girl pregnant. I told him what I felt and I was right except that I had the wrong ex name. He didn't tell me when the wedding was but I found the invitations in his home and to my surprise the wedding was three weeks away. That was 8 years ago.

THANK YOU LORD for getting me out of that situation.

BabyBlue91 · #50 11-06-2002, 02:46 PM

My grandfather died -- homey must have thought I was just looking for attention because he didn't visit my family or come to the wake or funeral. How's that for a solid relationship?

9dstpm · #51 11-07-2002, 04:29 PM

I knew it was ovah with my ex hubby when he gave me a f**king can opener (not even an electric one) and a funky little bottle of some Wal-Mart knockoff perfume for our first Christmas together while his mistress got some very expensive jewelry. And we had been married only 3 months at the time. I got a divorce quick, fast and in a hurry!!

GroovePhi62 · #52 11-07-2002, 05:43 PM

It was this female I had been seeing for like 2 months off and on and I knew off gate that she was a little Strange. We had just gotten done 'Handlin' our business' and I offered to take her home since she was on the bus, reluctantly she said "ok". We proceeded to walk in the crib and it was a two bedroom and she had a roomate, another female, so I said aiight cool. She then told me to come in her room and wait a minute while she got some of her things... This is where it got good!
The roomate(HeButch) came out and said WTF was I doing there in their house, she proceeded to say, "he's just a friend", The HeButch commenced to give the loudest pimpslap I've heard in a long time and while she was tossing her she was saying "what I tell you about sleeping with Nuccas", "You my B%tch!!!", They started wiling on each other like two cats. I commenced to slide out of the front door during all the activity and laughed my ass off.

Ideal08 · #53 11-07-2002, 06:25 PM

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Originally posted by GroovePhi62
It was this female I had been seeing for like 2 months off and on and I knew off gate that she was a little Strange. We had just gotten done 'Handlin' our business' and I offered to take her home since she was on the bus, reluctantly she said "ok". We proceeded to walk in the crib and it was a two bedroom and she had a roomate, another female, so I said aiight cool. She then told me to come in her room and wait a minute while she got some of her things... This is where it got good!
The roomate(HeButch) came out and said WTF was I doing there in their house, she proceeded to say, "he's just a friend", The HeButch commenced to give the loudest pimpslap I've heard in a long time and while she was tossing her she was saying "what I tell you about sleeping with Nuccas", "You my B%tch!!!", They started wiling on each other like two cats. I commenced to slide out of the front door during all the activity and laughed my ass off.

How can you expect us not to laugh at this?! LMAO!!! Oh, this right here is outrageous!!!!!

This thread truly does throw your past in your face. zetafg, I'm with you... Thank God for the closed doors!!!

beauty_6049 · #54 11-07-2002, 07:00 PM

I knew it was over when he started to act tough and disregard my statements toward him. This was odd because I kinda wore the pants in our relationship and he was ok with that. I should have known that relationship wasn't going to work when he wouldn't stand up to me when we argued!

FeeFee · #55 11-08-2002, 12:40 PM

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Originally posted by GroovePhi62
It was this female I had been seeing for like 2 months off and on and I knew off gate that she was a little Strange. We had just gotten done 'Handlin' our business' and I offered to take her home since she was on the bus, reluctantly she said "ok". We proceeded to walk in the crib and it was a two bedroom and she had a roomate, another female, so I said aiight cool. She then told me to come in her room and wait a minute while she got some of her things... This is where it got good!
The roomate(HeButch) came out and said WTF was I doing there in their house, she proceeded to say, "he's just a friend", The HeButch commenced to give the loudest pimpslap I've heard in a long time and while she was tossing her she was saying "what I tell you about sleeping with Nuccas", "You my B%tch!!!", They started wiling on each other like two cats. I commenced to slide out of the front door during all the activity and laughed my ass off.

This story right here is drama for ya Mama, for real! LMAO!

Pimpslap, "You my B*****" - ROFLMAO!!

Eclipse · #56 11-09-2002, 08:09 PM

I knew it was over with a college sweetheart when he came back to school from Christmas vacation to tell me he had gotten married over the break but it did not mean our relationship had to change! LOL Uhhh.... I think the relationship HAS changed! It seems he had been dating both of us at the same time (she was in NY, we were in Atl) and he married her so she could stay in this country legally.

Dedicated1 · #57 11-10-2002, 09:13 PM

I knew it was over when I was in Atlanta to see the guy I was engaged to and a woman called the apartment and I made dumb, dumb drop me off to her apartment to speak with her. She and I had some drinks and she told me everything about him and how she did not know he was engaged to someone that lived in another state. After she and I were finished with our two-hour conversation, dumb, dumb picked me up from her apartment (they lived in the same apartment complex) he knocked on the door and asked for me and swore he did not know her. She looked at him and said to him how he had just spent the night with her and he looked at her and told her that he did not know her

The funny thing about it was that besides him being soooooooo stupid for taking me over there, I was happy that I had a reason for breaking off the engagement. When I gave him his ring back and got on the bus to go back home, A huge burden was lifted off my back. He got married less than a year after we broke up apparently to someone else he was dating. He still to this day is trying to get back with me but I'm not having it

Kodaka · #58 11-12-2002, 07:18 PM

I was a junior in high school dating an entering college freshmen....clue #1

2. When I REPEATEDLY called his dorm room and his roomate would ask who's calling.....I'd answer, and he would repeat my name loudly...then there would be this long silence where the roomate would sputter..."oh, he ain't here right now."

3. When he came home for Christmas and my pictures and name that used to adorn his dresser and mirror were replaced with "Tracy's" a "homegirl" at school.

Kisha · #59 11-13-2002, 12:00 PM

I knew it was over when I received an email from my ex’s coworker telling me she was pregnant by my fiancée.

Ideal08 · #60 11-13-2002, 08:22 PM

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Originally posted by Dedicated1
I knew it was over when I was in Atlanta to see the guy I was engaged to and a woman called the apartment and I made dumb, dumb drop me off to her apartment to speak with her. She and I had some drinks and she told me everything about him and how she did not know he was engaged to someone that lived in another state. After she and I were finished with our two-hour conversation, dumb, dumb picked me up from her apartment (they lived in the same apartment complex) he knocked on the door and asked for me and swore he did not know her. She looked at him and said to him how he had just spent the night with her and he looked at her and told her that he did not know her The funny thing about it was that besides him being soooooooo stupid for taking me over there, I was happy that I had a reason for breaking off the engagement. When I gave him his ring back and got on the bus to go back home, I huge burden was lifted off my back. He got married less than a year after we broke up apparently to someone else he was dating. He still to this day is trying to get back with me but I'm not having it

I can't even tell yall how absolutely crushed, hurt, and PISSED OFF I would be if some mofo did this to me, meaning the other woman. I mean, really... to spend the night with you, then the next day, LOOK YOU IN THE FACE and say he doesn't even KNOW you?! That's just jacked up.