How do you feel about.............

[Raven1920]

This is a very personal decision. I KNOW you will make the best decision, sis!

Originally posted by Japera1920
Hello Sorors,
I have not been on GC for awhile. Between school and work, I am always on the move. As of May 25th, I am going to become a resident of the Washington D.C. area in pursuit of my paralegal career.

The reason why I am posting on GC, I wanted to get the vibe on how do you feel about living with your mate before marriage.

I need all types of feed back. Female and male if all possible

[Blue_Passion_01]

This is a very touchy subject because everyine has their own ideas and notions. I am in love with man. We have talked about moving in together but the fact is that we want to do everything right. We already know that we are going to be together for the rest of out lives so what is the rush. There is not problem spend nights at you significant other's house. But then at the same time, you can get up at your own leisure and go home when you rightfully choose.

The notion about moving in with your significant other to see if you all get along is loaded. What have you been doing the whole time that you have been dating? I hope that you all have been getting to know each other.

You do not need to ruin a good thing. The best thing about marriage is the element of suprise. Keep that element of surprise there and continue to do your own thing while being 100% faithful to your significant other.